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f**k. E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
6th Nov '12

I know some people don't approve of reading their SO's texts but here's some background first as to why I have just failed in attempting to;
1 - I just have that gut feeling he is cheating...
2 - I have found blonde hairs on my sofa when I've come back from being away, my hair is brown
3 - I went away one night before DD was born and when I came back my bed smelled of perfume that definitely wasn't from me
4 - He deletes all his messages from girls and wont read them if I can see his phone, whereas if it's a guy he doesn't care
5 - He lies ALL the time, about who he is with, where he is etc
6 - Even when I was in hospital the day after giving birth he lied and said he was going home early to sleep but I later found out from a friend he actually went out clubbing



So I just tried to sneak a peak because I had this horrible feeling. And as soon as I got hold of his phone he literally wrestled me to the floor and sat on me and pulled my shoes, socks and trousers off while dragging me along. Just because of his stupid phone. Why react like that if you're not hiding something?! So I've just locked myself in my bedroom, shaking. And my laptop battery is about to die so this is a post and run. f**k sake eurgh.

"L" 2 kids; Danville, Indiana 5906 posts
6th Nov '12

He is obviously lying. If he doesn't want to come forward with the truth then do what is best for you, even if it means leaving

Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
6th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Leave his ass. NOW."</blockquote>




This!

kimzog 1 child; Utah 170 posts
6th Nov '12

Um yeah, all signs point to him playing you. You deserve better. Get out!

LevinOnJetPlaneDntKnoWenI Pennsylvania 1590 posts
6th Nov '12

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Leave his ass. NOW."
I meant to agree :/
★ASHLEY★ 17 kids; Michigan 1274 posts
6th Nov '12

Sounds really fishy to me! My fiance and I leave our cell phones laying around all day long with no passwords on them and neither one of us care if the other goes through each others phone. I wouldnt trust him what so ever. Goodluck!

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10902 posts
6th Nov '12

all the signs are there.

He probably is cheating. I'm sorry. :(

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
6th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" Leave his ass. NOW."</blockquote>



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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Leave his ass. NOW."


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There's NO way he's not a cheating bastard. I'm sorry :(

*beck-i* {JAS08} 3 kids; Prattsburgh, New York 4808 posts
6th Nov '12

Good Luck... I agree you should leave he seems to be hiding something!

Melanies mama 1 child; Chicago, Illinois 1530 posts
6th Nov '12

Def hiding something. My ex used to hide his phone from me , and would delete everything in his text when i asked him if i could use it. He was talking to 3 different girls :?

Red Rover Due February 25; 16 kids; California 1802 posts
6th Nov '12

He's cheating..and I only say that because My ex did that to me. He guarded that phone with his life and tackled me to the floor. He was messing around. I'd pack my shit up and the babies and peace out. Thats what I did in the end.

Mone™ Due November 4 (girl); 33 kids; Washington, DC, United States 5483 posts
6th Nov '12

yeaaa he's more than likely cheating... leave.now.

Mandi Spells 17 kids; Victor, Idaho 47 posts
6th Nov '12

Call him out. If he denies it, then tell him everything you put on here and tell him that it all seems kind of strange. And tell him that it seems really strange to act like that over his phone. Always go with your gut.
It def. sounds like he's cheating.

Wife and Mommy of 4 4 kids; California 804 posts
6th Nov '12

You don't deserve that , please consider leaving him. That is so disrespectful for him to be treating you like that :(