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Opinions..... TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12

Me and baby daddy / exbf did not end on good terms... He had been cheating on me for 4 months then ignored me and told me to F off for some other girl... Im 7 1/2 months pregnant and I am debating on texting him about dr appts, letting him be there when baby is born... my friends say dont do it..... part of me wants him there but then after what he did I want him no where near me.... I had passed him going down the road twice in 3 days a couple weeks ago and he had text asking how the baby was and I didnt answer him.... I know its my decision but am I being childish ignoring him?

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
6th Nov '12

me personally i wouldnt at least not for the L&D part. but there is nothing wrong with trying to have him have something to do with the child.. but i would not bring that drama into giving birth.. you will already have stress why add it?

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
6th Nov '12

Yes you are 32. Its very childish. It was wrong for him to cheat and whatnot but don't let that affect his relationship with his daughter. At least TRY. If he doesn't want to be involved then fine go for child support.

TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" me personally i wouldnt at least not for the L&D part. but there is nothing wrong with trying to ... [snip!] ... something to do with the child.. but i would not bring that drama into giving birth.. you will already have stress why add it?"


Thats kinda what I was thinking.... I already have other baby daddy drama with others..... I dont need his considering his whacked out GF likes to speak for him....

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 122730 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting C's Mommy ✿:" Yes you are 32. Its very childish. It was wrong for him to cheat and whatnot but don't let that affect ... [snip!] ... that affect his relationship with his daughter. At least TRY. If he doesn't want to be involved then fine go for child support."


Why should she have to make the effort though? How hard is it for him to pick up the phone or text her if he really wants to be included?

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Why should she have to make the effort though? How hard is it for him to pick up the phone or text her if he really wants to be included?"


But she said was it childish to IGNORE him

TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12

Yep, it took him seeing me weeks after we broke up for him to text asking about the baby..... He has a 1 1/2 yr old daughter he has had nothing to do with as well and the girl he was cheating on me with thinks she is pregnant and she is only 16.....

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting C's Mommy ✿:" But she said was it childish to IGNORE him"


depending on the hole story.. it could and couldnt be.. i dont think so.. but thats me.. plus his GF talks for him from what i have read so she is not truly ignoring him.

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting TNMOMMA1006:" Yep, it took him seeing me weeks after we broke up for him to text asking about the baby..... He has ... [snip!] ... he has had nothing to do with as well and the girl he was cheating on me with thinks she is pregnant and she is only 16....."


wow wait what 16 how old is he sorry but thats a big no no.. he sounds like trash. if he wants something to truly do with that child let him but dont put effort in a lazy ass person.
these are my opinions tho.

TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" depending on the hole story.. it could and couldnt be.. i dont think so.. but thats me.. plus his GF talks for him from what i have read so she is not truly ignoring him. "


You know how when you text someone for so long you can tell if its NOT them... well after a week of ignoring me after us making plans on working on it and him going to a d r appt with me it was HER speaking for him.....

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting TNMOMMA1006:" Yep, it took him seeing me weeks after we broke up for him to text asking about the baby..... He has ... [snip!] ... he has had nothing to do with as well and the girl he was cheating on me with thinks she is pregnant and she is only 16....."



Wtf how old is he?!

TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" wow wait what 16 how old is he sorry but thats a big no no.. he sounds like trash. if he wants something ... [snip!] ... if he wants something to truly do with that child let him but dont put effort in a lazy ass person. these are my opinions tho. "


He is 21

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting TNMOMMA1006:" He is 21"


That is sad :?

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting TNMOMMA1006:" He is 21"


OH HELL NO.. nasty little scum bag.. that is just nasty.. he is 21 i could get the whole 18 thing but 16 that is just nasty..
if she wants to have something to do with the baby and pay his child support tell her to keep talking for him.. other wise she needs to shut her trap. i hate it when my exs creatcher thing trys to talk for him. im like bitch please mind your own.. not your kid not your concern.

TNMOMMA1006 3 kids; Tennessee 586 posts
6th Nov '12
Quoting C's Mommy ✿:" That is sad :?"



Yes it is..... I made a stupid mistake and now my son will have to pay for it because his donor is nothing but 100% PURE white trash like the rest of his family...... Most have been in jail or on drugs and he would get pissed at me when I would say my kid will not be around people like that.... But my son has my family and friends who will have enough love for him to make up for that POS!!!!
It just sucks going through this alone..... I have my friends and family but you know what I mean.....