Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Nov '12

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ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Isaiah & Delilah's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" And stop arguing about what job is harder. Everything ... [snip!] ... all hard. However I'm gonna let her know that just because I'm a SAHM doesn't mean I sit on my ass all day and do nothing.."


What do you do? Clean the house? Grocery shop? Laundry....Things working moms do on top of their jobs?

*Turtles* Due July 27; 1 child; Someplace, UT, United States 6083 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"


You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do.

Arianna's Mama =] TTC since Mar 2011; 49 kids; Unadilla, New York 3157 posts
7th Nov '12
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Lois. 1 child; Pennsylvania 2570 posts
7th Nov '12
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ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"


Excuses.....

kthx. TTC since Nov 2012; Cleves, Ohio 65262 posts
7th Nov '12
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Allie's Mama 1 child; 1 angel baby; Lynnwood, Washington 3200 posts
7th Nov '12

I know here in Washington you only get benefits if you do a work first program. For several hours out of the week.
It's a job searching thing, if you don't you lose your benefits, they start with deducting 40% then all of it after a while.
So technically it's not 100% given with out doing anything.
The only time people get away with not participating is if they have a doctors note saying that they cannot work.

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting kthx.:" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, shit, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so f**king juvenile. "

I LOVE YOU!:D:D:D

*Turtles* Due July 27; 1 child; Someplace, UT, United States 6083 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting S&T+1:" Spend one day with a SAHM then feel free to tell me how easy it is. Until then, shut the f**k up about the matter because you clearly don't know what you're talking about."


Being SAHM mom isn't as hard as a mother who works and then comes home and takes care of her children, especially if she's single.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, shit, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so f**king juvenile. "</blockquote>



:!:

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
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kthx. TTC since Nov 2012; Cleves, Ohio 65262 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" I LOVE YOU!:D:D:D"


:D <3 <3

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting *Turtles*:" You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do."


:!::!::!:
But she wants to stay at home and live off of her SO so you can't reason with her. No point in trying. :lol:

Arianna's Mama =] TTC since Mar 2011; 49 kids; Unadilla, New York 3157 posts
7th Nov '12
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