Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
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ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Isaiah & Delilah's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" And stop arguing about what job is harder. Everything ... [snip!] ... all hard. However I'm gonna let her know that just because I'm a SAHM doesn't mean I sit on my ass all day and do nothing.."


What do you do? Clean the house? Grocery shop? Laundry....Things working moms do on top of their jobs?

*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6093 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"


You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do.

......................... TTC since Nov 2011; 1 child; 3 angel babies; somewhere =), NY, United States 3785 posts
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Lois. 1 child; Pennsylvania 2653 posts
7th Nov '12
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ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:" Wow you are very ignorant. Yes good for her to look for a job. Like I stated last night not really into ... [snip!] ... payin 475$ a week to someone who I don't know or trust and knowing she won't get the care she gets at home I can't do it sorry"


Excuses.....

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66897 posts
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Daniee Due December 25 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Lynnwood, Washington 3419 posts
status 7th Nov '12

I know here in Washington you only get benefits if you do a work first program. For several hours out of the week.
It's a job searching thing, if you don't you lose your benefits, they start with deducting 40% then all of it after a while.
So technically it's not 100% given with out doing anything.
The only time people get away with not participating is if they have a doctors note saying that they cannot work.

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting kthx.:" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, shit, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so fucking juvenile. "

I LOVE YOU!:D:D:D

*Turtles* 2 kids; Someplace, UT, United States 6093 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting S&T+1:" Spend one day with a SAHM then feel free to tell me how easy it is. Until then, shut the fuck up about the matter because you clearly don't know what you're talking about."


Being SAHM mom isn't as hard as a mother who works and then comes home and takes care of her children, especially if she's single.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Wanna know why? Because a 3 month old does nothing besides cry, eat, shit, and sleep. The women that ... [snip!] ... running around.... it's hard. Why are you wanting to one-up her? Arguing about who has the harder job is so fucking juvenile. "</blockquote>



:!:

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
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kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66897 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" I LOVE YOU!:D:D:D"


:D <3 <3

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting *Turtles*:" You can always work opposite shifts as your SO or have a family member watch your LO. That's what we're going to do."


:!::!::!:
But she wants to stay at home and live off of her SO so you can't reason with her. No point in trying. :lol:

......................... TTC since Nov 2011; 1 child; 3 angel babies; somewhere =), NY, United States 3785 posts
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