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topictitle Christinɞ Illinois 121 posts
7th Nov '12

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J+K= Bri&Colton:) 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 8479 posts
7th Nov '12

Maybe he SHOULD be on medication. Has he been checked out for bipolar disorder?

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
7th Nov '12

Is he taking any diet pills or anything? Sometimes those can totally change your mood. I do have to agree with what he was saying, though (not how he handled the situation). You can't just put your kids somewhere else every time you eat a little something... just tell them no.

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
7th Nov '12

DOUBLE POST

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1957 posts
status 7th Nov '12

so hes not really phycho he is just a bit of a dick head and doesn't think, that doesnt make him a psycho

eur009 Due November 12; Japan 264 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" Maybe he SHOULD be on medication. Has he been checked out for bipolar disorder?"


I am seconding this

Christinɞ Illinois 121 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" Maybe he SHOULD be on medication. Has he been checked out for bipolar disorder?"


He thinks he has borderline personality. I read about it and every trait really does describe him. But his mom is bipolar.

Christinɞ Illinois 121 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" Is he taking any diet pills or anything? Sometimes those can totally change your mood. I do have to agree ... [snip!] ... the situation). You can't just put your kids somewhere else every time you eat a little something... just tell them no. "


I agree that on a level he is right but he's so damn unreasonable and outrageous in his reactions...and no he's not taking anything for sure.

J+K= Bri&Colton:) 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 8479 posts
7th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Christinɞ:</b>" He thinks he has borderline personality. I read about it and every trait really does describe him. But his mom is bipolar."</blockquote>




Then he really needs to go see a doctor about that. He shouldn't be freaking out like that around the kids or you, especially to his dd that's potty training!

Mommy&Stinkbug 1 child; Fredericksburg, Virginia 6032 posts
7th Nov '12

Diet pills energy drinks sodas lack of sex stress at work?
Any number of things could cause this..
Maybe he has an underlying medical condition
My step dad went nuts one day and accused my mom of cheating on him he quit his job he fought with her constantly he drove her to having panic attacks
Then one day it stopped.
He won't go to a doctor no one knows what happened I know my mother didnt cheat on him he just flipped a switch then flipped it back.

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Christinɞ:" I agree that on a level he is right but he's so damn unreasonable and outrageous in his reactions...and no he's not taking anything for sure."


It sounds like he needs to learn how to be proactive verses reactive. Maybe, if he thinks he has a personality disorder, he would agree to go talk to someone about his anger and the way he communicates?

eur009 Due November 12; Japan 264 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting 'Lil Boo's mommy:" Diet pills energy drinks sodas lack of sex stress at work? Any number of things could cause this.. Maybe ... [snip!] ... go to a doctor no one knows what happened I know my mother didnt cheat on him he just flipped a switch then flipped it back."


I actually have noticed that guys do this.. All of a sudden a "time in their life" they will switch for weeks or months and then switch back. When you ask them about it they tell you they don't know why.



BD has done it to me. His explanation is he doesn't know why he thinks it's just a phase and he was just being a dick.



ETA - although his has admitted to anger issues so I do think it may be something to do with personality.

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting 'Lil Boo's mommy:" Diet pills energy drinks sodas lack of sex stress at work? Any number of things could cause this.. Maybe ... [snip!] ... go to a doctor no one knows what happened I know my mother didnt cheat on him he just flipped a switch then flipped it back."


That's scary... he could flip a switch again at any given point if he doesn't deal with that!

Christinɞ Illinois 121 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting 'Lil Boo's mommy:" Diet pills energy drinks sodas lack of sex stress at work? Any number of things could cause this.. Maybe ... [snip!] ... go to a doctor no one knows what happened I know my mother didnt cheat on him he just flipped a switch then flipped it back."


He used to drink energy drinks every day ..now it's like once in a blue moon, the last time he had one was yesterday...the time before that was a few months ago. I wonder what happened w/your step dad. How has he been since?

Christinɞ Illinois 121 posts
7th Nov '12

Side note: I left him for 6 months w/my kids in a different state and he agreed to let us go (this was back when he was cray as hell that time I mentioned) and I can't stop thinking about how damn happy my kids were when they were w/just me....it bothers me.