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Holidays....Vacation... user banned
7th Nov '12

Yeah that's my issue. I had to take meds to stop preterm labor I freaked out and decided to go longer due to due date issues. Anyways I think my due date is wrong. But because of thanksgiving and my husband's vacation time he might not be able to take time off. He is delivering. So I have spent the whole day trying to plan out how to make it work if he comes week of thanksgiving. My midwife wants to induce next week because of quick deliveries and she thinks I am going to be 39 weeks. I have refused from day one because I don't like induction and I think my due date is off. I think I am due december 7 with makes me 37 weeks. Either way I am refusing induction. There is no medical reason for it. If she is right about my due date great, but the meds I took also stops you from naturally progressing so I may actually go full term for once. Considering my first was at 38, second 37 and third 33 1/2 . Anyways I am freaking out because I hate not being able to have hubby there for any period of time. I mean he can come home to deliver like planned but can't take days off. Sucky thing about him being the boss. :( Grrrrrrr.



Sorry just needed to vent. So baby and I will be alone the first week or less then he can take vaca after the week of thanksgiving. Or if we have him this week or next he can take vaca.

BoysAreMessy 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Sardinia, Ohio 204 posts
8th Nov '12

Aww, I hope he can take off for you. My husband got to be there last Wednesday for Tren't birth, but only got to see us an hour the next day because of work. Being the boss does have its downfalls.

user banned Iowa 1784 posts
8th Nov '12
Quoting BoysAreMessy:" Aww, I hope he can take off for you. My husband got to be there last Wednesday for Tren't birth, but only got to see us an hour the next day because of work. Being the boss does have its downfalls."

I know, everyone thinks it is great and he can do whatever he wants, but no! He has to be there during certain weeks due to customers. We have put our business on hold because we just can't focus on it at all! I feel bad because with our business we have tons of customer freaking out. Which I feel bad but dude it IS online and delivered right to you. I have NO control over anything. If they needed a return I would help, but it isn't that. It is random questions on how it works. Which on our site it tells that too! But they saw on my facebook that my detergent I sell got blood, mud and grass stains, oh and oil out of our dirtbike gear. So they want to know stuff about that. Well I have it on my facebook, there isn't more to explain. lol Oh well I am just stressed. I didn't want family here but looks like I have to have my mom as backup. I know she will be respectful of my wishes but it is very hard for me to accept someone into my environment espcially when I am bleeding like a mofo. lol