im depressed today... Morgan*mom of 2!! 34 kids; Newark, Delaware 509 posts
7th Nov '12

so i spent most of it sleeping. my SO is being a crybaby because my store manager wants me to take over price changes overnight. the three new people he has doing it arent working out....i guess they dont know where anything is and dont get the tags done. anyways, i told SO and he started freaking out, saying he wont let me do it, that i'm going back on what i agreed to when we got back together, that he can't trust me. first off, HE begged ME to take him back. I told him i wouldnt spend the night anywhere else, because it made him uncomfortable. my whole stance on it is, he doesnt pay my bills so he doesnt get control over when or where i work. point blank PERIOD. i refuse to let a man control me. now i'm doubting this relationship and this pregnancy. like i dont know what i want anymore. his lack of trust in me is really starting to get to me. should i just move on? what do you ladies think?

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
7th Nov '12

Lack of trust is what caused my marriage to end.

I think if there isn't trust, there isn't real love.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
7th Nov '12

You know what I think. It ALWAYS gets bad again with a person like that. But nooo dont trust someone who has been through it before, for YEARS....

ETA: I am here if you need to talk. You have my number. <3

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
7th Nov '12
Quoting Super Kame Vegeta:" Lack of trust is what caused my marriage to end. I think if there isn't trust, there isn't real love."

^ Agree. If you cant trust someone then whats the point in a relationship. All its going do is cause fights and drive you both insane. Thats not healthy for either of you or your kids.

Justine's Mama Due November 28 (boy); 1 child; Boynton Beach, Florida 1939 posts
7th Nov '12

Trust issues is what ruined my 6 year relationship. It is soo annoying when someone does not trust you for no reason.