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bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74792 posts
status 8th Nov '12
Quoting sarah* sarah:" ask your doc but please think of your baby, not how your feeling. why dont you ask you mum to stay or you can do it without your mum & have someone else with you."


Uh because her parents have booked to go on a trip, can you not read?



Seriously, I will NEVER understand why people care so much about this type of shit, it's not like she wants to be induced at 35ish weeks.

~Mrs.SoldierBoy~ Due September 2 (boy); 1 child; Colorado 4969 posts
8th Nov '12
Quoting Erica Yutzy:" Well, I knew at least one person would call me selfish. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't.. Either way I know ... [snip!] ... anyway - maybe he will actually understand lmao. I think I could handle delivering ten days before. Would still be the 27th..."


I don't mean to be rude to you as a person. I just said that because that is my personal opinion when someone wants to purposely make their baby be born before they are ready. Also because I know how it feels to see your baby on oxygen and under the lights for jaundice for 2 weeks. It's not a fun feeling knowing your baby can't breath on his own. And if I can try to help somebody not have to go through that then I will.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
8th Nov '12

Doesn't hurt to ask- the worst he'll say is no. And who knows, you might go by then on your own by then. Just bring it up at your next appointment.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22850 posts
8th Nov '12

I know *my* doctor wont induce until 41 weeks at the minimum. But more than likely you will be ok. And it isn't selfish when you suffer from anxiety issues I know I've been there



*hugs*

user banned Due July 3; 2 kids; Australia 14351 posts
8th Nov '12

Wouldnt hurt to ask. Personally i wouldnt want to be induced just because my mom or dad wouldnt be around

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22850 posts
8th Nov '12

I also know how it is to have a baby in the NICU for several months and lose a child after birth at 41 weeks. We may never know but maybe Abigail would still be alive if my doctor would have induced early

Erica Yutzy 1 child; Red Lake, Ontario 344 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" I know *my* doctor wont induce until 41 weeks at the minimum. But more than likely you will be ok. And it isn't selfish when you suffer from anxiety issues I know I've been there *hugs*"</blockquote>




Thank you. <3




I'm not scheduled for an appointment until the 16th, so I might call tomorrow so I can at least attempt to mentally prepare myself if he tells me no.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74792 posts
status 8th Nov '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" I also know how it is to have a baby in the NICU for several months and lose a child after birth at 41 ... [snip!] ... a child after birth at 41 weeks. We may never know but maybe Abigail would still be alive if my doctor would have induced early"


Big hugs hun, sorry for your loss! <3

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22850 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica Yutzy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" I know *my* doctor wont induce until ... [snip!] ... an appointment until the 16th, so I might call tomorrow so I can at least attempt to mentally prepare myself if he tells me no."</blockquote>




You're welcome



I would do that. Because you can't really be blindsided with this especially with your anxiety issues

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22850 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Big hugs hun, sorry for your loss! <3"</blockquote>




Thank you I didn't mean to post it like that though.

pennylove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Australia 1380 posts
8th Nov '12
Quoting bia.:" Uh because her parents have booked to go on a trip, can you not read? Seriously, I will NEVER understand ... [snip!] ... I will NEVER understand why people care so much about this type of shit, it's not like she wants to be induced at 35ish weeks."

hold up there!!! i know that!! . A few other people on here has commented also why target me.
She can what she pleases:/

Emma+Abby+Logan+Charlotte 4 kids; Oregon 3628 posts
8th Nov '12

In Oregon there is a law that you can not induce or have a c-section before 39 weeks unless there's is a medical reason to do so. Most doctors will wait till your at least full term now though .

Erica Yutzy 1 child; Red Lake, Ontario 344 posts
8th Nov '12

Hmm well I shall try to get ahold of him tomorrow.. Thanks for the info ladies!

stfubeeouch Due November 24 (girl); 1 child; Texas 640 posts
8th Nov '12

I think that is something you will have to discuss with your doctor about it. I do know that my Ob will induce if you are 38 weeks.

Tierra Gonzalez Due November 10 (girl); 2 kids; Chandler, Arizona 101 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" I also know how it is to have a baby in the NICU for several months and lose a child after birth at 41 ... [snip!] ... a child after birth at 41 weeks. We may never know but maybe Abigail would still be alive if my doctor would have induced early"</blockquote>




Awe I am so sorry! *Hugs* I couldn't imagine that happening and to tell you the truth it is a fear of mine! If you don't mind me asking... Was it a still birth, or we're there just medical complications from waiting to long!? That must have been horrible and you must be a very strong woman to go through a ordeal like that! <3 May God Bless You!