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Silent partner, might be TMI. Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

Does anyone else have a partner/DH/SO that is really quiet during sex or anything else intimate?



My Fiance enjoys the sex we have, but hardly ever moans or gets rowdy, which is a shame because when he moans it really gets me going.
I have talked to him about it, and he says he doessn't realise ans that he feels a little awkward making noise, like he thinks someone will hear or something lol.
Even when I give him a blow job, he doesn't moan or anything so Im thinking 'Am I doing it wrong?' So I stop and ask and he says keep going its great.
How am I meant to know if he is going to c*m, he makes no signals or noises and Im like damn my mouth is getting sore!
I guess thats just who he is, so I wont ask him to change or anything, but I do wish he would let go and just go wild once in a while.



Does anyone else do the same thing or have a SO like this?

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7275 posts
8th Nov '12

Yes... I cant tell if hes enjoying it or not. Then when i stop he says "whyd you stop i was a lmost there" I need some kind of signal or something

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8932 posts
8th Nov '12

My SO doesnt make much noise until he's about to c*m, I wish he made more noise because its so hot!

*Turtles* Due July 27 (girl); 1 child; Someplace, UT, United States 6090 posts
8th Nov '12

My SO talks lol..I laugh sometimes cuz he gets aggressive. I think if it helps maybe you should turn some music on to not make it awkward.

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8932 posts
8th Nov '12
Quoting *Turtles*:" My SO talks lol..I laugh sometimes cuz he gets aggressive. I think if it helps maybe you should turn some music on to not make it awkward."

Oh yeah my SO talks too, it puts me off lol

Mother of amazing kids 3 kids; Arizona 257 posts
8th Nov '12

My husband don't make any noises either, but I guess I just have to get used to it, but when he does let out a noise it's really HOT. Lol.

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

Lol Im always asking "Are you going to c*m or not?!" And hes like "Yeah I get close but you keep stopping.."
Well how am I supposed to know?!!

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Reid:</b>" My SO doesnt make much noise until he's about to c*m, I wish he made more noise because its so hot!"</blockquote>



I know what you mean. Something about him enjoying himself makes me enjoy myself even more.
Those noises are so damn sexy!

MrsWilliams154 Due June 24; 17 kids; Oxford, United Kingdom 1094 posts
8th Nov '12

Mine used to be like that so I told him to shut his eyes and let loose and now he's louder than me lol

Miss Ashley +2 2 kids; New York 3790 posts
8th Nov '12

I hate guys like that ... But then id be blunt about it and say something like "why are you so quiet??" Right in the middle lol



With my most recent ex I had to talk dirty to get any reponse out of him. I felt weird at first bc I didn't know if he would respond lol but he did

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss Ashley +2:</b>" I hate guys like that ... But then id be blunt about it and say something like "why are you so quiet??" ... [snip!] ... ex I had to talk dirty to get any reponse out of him. I felt weird at first bc I didn't know if he would respond lol but he did"</blockquote>



I feel like such an idiot when I try to talk dirty.
Then again, thats probably because I think Im about as sexy as a potato.
He used to talk dirty, not really anymore though.

Miss Ashley +2 2 kids; New York 3790 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss Ashley +2:</b>" I hate guys like that ... But then id be ... [snip!] ... Then again, thats probably because I think Im about as sexy as a potato. He used to talk dirty, not really anymore though."</blockquote>




Lmfao I was in the early stages of my pregnancy and on a hormone high so I didn't feel sexy in any type of way BUT I was in a care free stage and just wanted good sex so I did what had to be done. NORMALLY I feel like an ass clown when I talk dirty lmao

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss Ashley +2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss ... [snip!] ... care free stage and just wanted good sex so I did what had to be done. NORMALLY I feel like an ass clown when I talk dirty lmao"</blockquote>



Normally I don't feel too self concious about the way I look. Then today I looked in the mirror and was like 'Eww..'
Also finding it hard to feel sexy with a big baby belly, I feel like I'm just flailing around like a Manatee.
Also my fiance makes encouraging whale noises when I'm trying to get out of bed.

Damon's Mama 1 child; Kingman, Arizona 1403 posts
8th Nov '12

DH is pretty quiet, the most I usually get is breathing heavy and maybe a tiny moan here and there. When I give him head same thing heavy breathing and maybe a moan. I can tell when he is about to c*m by how he moves his foot. Lol for lack of a better analogy like when you rub a dog's belly just not so fast. My ex the only other man I have been with was quite too so I just I am use to it. Put some music on and have a good time ;)

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 844 posts
8th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Damon's Mama:</b>" DH is pretty quiet, the most I usually get is breathing heavy and maybe a tiny moan here and there. When ... [snip!] ... My ex the only other man I have been with was quite too so I just I am use to it. Put some music on and have a good time ;)"</blockquote>




Lol that analogy gave me the funniest mental picture!
I'll try the music idea, but it just depends on the music.
If it was like that sexy slow jazz I would just feel like the biggest try hard lol.