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user banned 17 kids; Minneapolis, 28945 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting M♥mmyD11312:" I'm thankful my husband is amazing & helps out in every way he can. I also know he will never stop helping ... [snip!] ... that ruin their relationships when it takes team work. Idk. It just seems crazy you're right, to blame it on having a kid. :/"


This is exactly true, they blame it on the kids when times get hard or stressful..

GL♣PC♥BC Due May 5; 2 kids; Atlanta, GA, United States 9395 posts
10th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting M♥mmyD11312:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting M♥mmyD11312:</b>" ... [snip!] ... :)"</blockquote> Tis true. But this is Something we have always wanted so I guess it makes the hard times worth it."</blockquote>




Oh no, the baby has never actually caused us to fight.. But tack on months of no sleep, thousands of dollars in hospital bills and lack of adult time because of the new change.. Life is bound to get stirred up. I just meant you haven't seen it all yet lol

i'm a new soul 1 child; Worcester, Massachusetts 1338 posts
10th Nov '12
Gone 17 kids; Miami, FL, United States 15414 posts
11th Nov '12
Quoting GL♣:" <blockquote><b>Quoting M♥mmyD11312:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣:</b>" ... [snip!] ... lack of adult time because of the new change.. Life is bound to get stirred up. I just meant you haven't seen it all yet lol"


I have to agree. From newborn to age 1, despite the lack of sleep and having a baby in our room with us, it wasn't the hardest time in our relationship. When my son turned 1 I started nannying so I was working again, in school full time, SO was working all the time, toddlers can be more demanding than newborns in some ways because they are mobile yet not independent enough to be left alone and are constantly getting into stuff, that age was harder on our relationship than the newborn stage. Now that our son is 3 its getting better again