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Deal breakers Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
10th Nov '12

What kind of things would make it or break it for you in a new relationship?



For me it would be thinking that homosexuality is a sin and abortion is NEVER an option.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
10th Nov '12

A racist, a cocky son of a bitch, and a dumbass.

Avian's Mommy!! 1 child; Levelland, Texas 3872 posts
10th Nov '12

Drug use.... No ambition... Abusive... Mental laziness... Lol and many more... Honestly anything that I wouldn't want my son growing up thinking is ok when it's not.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
10th Nov '12

Cheating, abuse and a shitty disposition.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
10th Nov '12

couldnt be with someone like that either.

i couldnt be with someone who was just ignorant or judgmenetal, or just a dick. i cant deal with that.

also if i can smell your stinky ass and im just standing by you..deal breaker.

Buzz and Almond Joys momm 2 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 12593 posts
10th Nov '12

Pack of cleanliness. Someone who can't show affection, smokers, drug use, someone with very liberal beliefs, someone not very intelligent, they can't speak with any ignorance, a "thug", someone who curses. Someone who is lazy.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" What kind of things would make it or break it for you in a new relationship? For me it would be thinking that homosexuality is a sin and abortion is NEVER an option. "


intolerance of others choices
smoking
short (yes, that one is shallow I know)
controlling
no job
no ambition
unhappy person in general
not liking kids



House of Estrogen Washington, District of Columbia 625 posts
10th Nov '12

Being religious
Being conservative
That's about it. I get along well with people in general but I could never date someone who was either of those two things.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Avian's Mommy!!:" Drug use.... No ambition... Abusive... Mental laziness... Lol and many more... Honestly anything that I wouldn't want my son growing up thinking is ok when it's not."



yea, all of that too



I'm pretty picky.



sucking in bed.... unfortunately I've learned that's a deal breaker too

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
10th Nov '12

conservative is definitely a deal breaker..
someone who is not open to thoughts, feelings, and sexuality



someone who is judgemental
someone who isn't nice to others around him (it shows how he'll treat you eventually IMO)

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
10th Nov '12

Racism, if he was in a gang, hardcore drugs, alcoholic, abusive, cheating. That's pretty much where I draw the line.

Caddy ÷ nwark, NJ, United States 9325 posts
10th Nov '12

Alcoholic, No job and no real prospects for a job/career, lives with his parents and no ambition to move out...



Smoking
Bad hygiene..



basically a dirty lazy person.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
10th Nov '12

exactly those two things. A "friend" of mine said I'm never allowed to have an abortion. I was like hrmmm yea right. My body my choice.

Cap'n Obvious 65 kids; Benton, Kentucky 1330 posts
10th Nov '12

Someone who isn't intelligent or funny. Someone who's a lazy asshole. Someone who is a gigantic mooch. Someone who's abusive in any way. Cheaters. Liars. Someone who lives with their head shoved up their parents' asses. Pretty much sums it up.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" What kind of things would make it or break it for you in a new relationship? For me it would be thinking that homosexuality is a sin and abortion is NEVER an option. "


What you said.



And being extremely conservative, racist, unemployed or working at a dead-end minimum wage job with no aspirations to do better than that. Also, having children. I don't have kids, and I would prefer not to be with someone who has kids. STDs/HIV also a deal breaker. And I would prefer him to be a traveler. I've got the travel bug lately.