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ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
10th Nov '12

I will probably just have my dad talk to him about it, he is good at doing that. I just needed to vent a little bit. Thanks ladies.

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
10th Nov '12

I clean up after my Man all day long

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting applelove:" I clean up after my Man all day long"


I'm sorry

A, E & W's mommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Bulgaria 16502 posts
10th Nov '12

My man cleans up after me, lol....because he feels sorry for me that I can't get the house to look the way I want due to chasing 3 kids around all day. So ya, after a 12 hour shift he comes home, does some dishes, does some laundry, maybe washes the floor, maybe cleans a toilet and helps me get set to tackle the next day. He's got a good heart :)

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
10th Nov '12
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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting applelove:" Why? I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to "



because it would suck major ass. I hardly pick up after my own child.

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting applelove:" Why? I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to "


Would you still feel the same way if he told you that he expected it of you.



I mean, it's fine to be asked nicely but not demanded of you.

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting A, E & W's mommy:" My man cleans up after me, lol....because he feels sorry for me that I can't get the house to look the ... [snip!] ... laundry, maybe washes the floor, maybe cleans a toilet and helps me get set to tackle the next day. He's got a good heart :)"


Yes he does. I wish my SO was more like that.

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting ღ Diana ღ:" Would you still feel the same way if he told you that he expected it of you. I mean, it's fine to be asked nicely but not demanded of you. "



I think it is expected of me,(that is why I do it) but he would not say that. But I expect things of him as well and he dose them. We each have our "jobs" and it works well for us. :) very well.

Now if a person is not happy doing something then they should not and need to talk about it with the other person

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting ღ Diana ღ:" Yes he does. I wish my SO was more like that. "


Yes is you are expected to do things then he should be as well. I think I miss understood, are you the onlyone who hase to do things at the house?

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting applelove:" Yes is you are expected to do things then he should be as well. I think I miss understood, are you the onlyone who hase to do things at the house?"


yes including caring for the children so he can sit on the couch because of all the hard work he does.