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just found out im pregnant with my second and NERVOUS HELP SleepyBaby401 Due June 28; 17 kids; Bristol, Rhode Island 94 posts
10th Nov '12

helloooo baby gaga forum (: so i need some insight .. i just found out im second with my second child .. well technically my third considering i had a miscarraige in july of this year. I'm excited but also nervous. My mother constantly tells me "if you ever get pregnant again, your out" so im nervous if i tell her im pregnant ill be out on the street PREGNANT i have no where to go , no family no friends that can take me in sad.gif i have no job only on unemployment and the father cant help me . i just dont know what to do , im getting so anxious because i need a plan sad.gif a few people have heartlessly told me to just KILL my child as in abortion obviously and yes that is an option but i dont think thats an option for me , ONE i cannot live with the fact that i murdered my child for the rest of my life id feel nothing but GUILT TWO i feel like its my responsibility , I got pregnant and i have to deal with the consequences now . will it be hard ? probably but id feel like horrible just giving up on my child like that and taking the easy way out . maybe mothers out there can give me some advice of how they did it because im at a loss : / i also have no car or liscence so i reallu dont know what to do . thanks in advance <3

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
10th Nov '12

For one, abortion isn't a bad thing when used for it's normal purpose as opposed to birth control.



Two, get a job. Do what you have to do. How are you supporting the child you have now?



Three, how old are you? Are you old enough to have a full time job??

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
10th Nov '12

It's not a child yet. It's a blob of cells.
Get a job, and get over yourself.



Poor you...

SleepyBaby401 Due June 28; 17 kids; Bristol, Rhode Island 94 posts
10th Nov '12

i understand but i for one just dont think i could live with that decision . i've been looking for jobs, theyre very hard to find. i now live at home with my mother because me and my daughter's father didnt get along so i came back home. i collect unemployment for now. i am 22 years old.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" It's not a child yet. It's a blob of cells. Get a job, and get over yourself. Poor you..."


Gawd I'm not the only one thinking that. Your avi is very pertinent to this thread...

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
10th Nov '12

Its probably best that you do terminate this pregnancy, it sounds like you can barely take care of the one you have now, let alone 2

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting SleepyBaby401:" i understand but i for one just dont think i could live with that decision . i've been looking for jobs, ... [snip!] ... because me and my daughter's father didnt get along so i came back home. i collect unemployment for now. i am 22 years old."



Go out and get a job. Get assistance if you have to. But support your own kids. Don't make your mom do it. And if you are so against abortion, adopt it out. By the sounds of it, you can't feasibly give this kid a stable life.

SleepyBaby401 Due June 28; 17 kids; Bristol, Rhode Island 94 posts
10th Nov '12

wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i just need some POSITIVE insight. you have no clue what kind of person i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses.

SleepyBaby401 Due June 28; 17 kids; Bristol, Rhode Island 94 posts
10th Nov '12

i DO support my daughter, my mother does nothing for me but provide a place for us to stay.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."

welcome to a public forum, but also if you are living at home, you are not fully supporting your daughter, so abort this pregnancy, go on with your life, find a job, use birth control, or better yet, abstinence, until you can afford a place on your own.

SleepyBaby401 Due June 28; 17 kids; Bristol, Rhode Island 94 posts
10th Nov '12

and i can try, i dont want to give up on my children.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."


I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar.
Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting your child now.
However you think it's a fantastic idea to bring another child into this world even though you can't support yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help"



Does that sound about right dear?



Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."


Suck it up, monkey nuts.



Seriously, who the fuck calls people Monkey Nuts. Lmfao.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar. Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting ... [snip!] ... yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help" Does that sound about right dear? "


Ahhhhh You're awesome.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
10th Nov '12
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar. Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting ... [snip!] ... yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help" Does that sound about right dear? "

lets not be correcting people's grammar, when you are not using correct grammar yourself.