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2 Baby Girls Due May 19; 4 kids; Utah 3212 posts
12th Nov '12

Gone. I've been through the whole cheating thing, and even reading your post brings it all back. I would never be able to handle it. The one exception is if that person had a sudden awakening of some sort (i.e. converted to a religion and was very convicted about it all).

2 Baby Girls Due May 19; 4 kids; Utah 3212 posts
12th Nov '12

How did she find it?

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" They both sound really f**king trashy and should probably have their kids taken."


It makes me sad but you're right.
They can be awful parents, and I know from personal experience.

Leash25 2 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 1472 posts
status 12th Nov '12
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" Of your DH/SO cheating, would you leave? I mean it's one thing to find out they are cheating, but to ... [snip!] ... with the dogs.. you catch my drift. WWYD? If you would stay and try to get past the cheating, would the video change anything?"


I agree with you... and all of his shit would be packed on the other side of the door and locks changed!!!

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" It makes me sad but you're right. They can be awful parents, and I know from personal experience."

I just can't believe she's doing COKE in order to get back at her husband. And making him tell their son what he did? The kids don't need to know that. That's such an awful situation for those poor children to be in.

Leash25 2 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 1472 posts
status 12th Nov '12
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" doing coke and hanging out with an 'old flame' (coke dealer that used to have the major hots for her ... [snip!] ... She is a recovering addict, coming off of pills on methadone but in her early twenties she was addicted to coke for a while."


sh is going to be hurting herself more than him!

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting 2 Baby Girls:" How did she find it?"


I'm not exactly sure. I think she found it, got curious as to what it was so she popped it into the video camera to have a look.
I know he's a f**king moron for keeping it in their house. He says it's four years old but there is no way. She is the biggest investigator I've ever known and so far up his ass, she would have found it years ago.

Sweetie Pie™ 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 5264 posts
12th Nov '12

I would definitely leave. I don't think I could stay in a house that we shared. Too much reminiscing and more likely to stay sad for a longer period of time with all the memories there. Like another woman said, I think both parents shouldn't have their children...this sounds like such an unhealthy environment for the children, especially to involve your children in such a grown-up problem.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" I just can't believe she's doing COKE in order to get back at her husband. And making him tell their ... [snip!] ... tell their son what he did? The kids don't need to know that. That's such an awful situation for those poor children to be in."


If she didn't have such an addictive personality it wouldn't worry me so much but she does. She's been on methadone for nearly three years for a really bad opiat addiction.. she's down to 20 ml (almost off it) and everything and now she's going to be pissing dirty and may get kicked off.
I don't think the kids should know either, when he told me he knows what his dad did I was like :O... then he asked me if he had a video of it 'cause mom left the computer on and he read that he did.. poor kid is so disapointed in his dad. I know that was her goal but I don't think it's right.
She's also been beating the living shit out of him for the last week, but she says she doesn't do it around the kids. The weekend she found out I took them for a few days so she could sort her shit out, she was apparently going through all of his stuff and for sure leaving but when I dropped them off on the Sunday he was still there. They have such a toxic relationship already.. I can just f**king imagine what it's going to be like now.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" If she didn't have such an addictive personality it wouldn't worry me so much but she does. She's ... [snip!] ... he was still there. They have such a toxic relationship already.. I can just f**king imagine what it's going to be like now."

That's absolutely disgusting. At this point I'm pretty much siding with the husband over the wife. Someone really needs to get those kids out of there.

user banned California 36390 posts
12th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:</b>" If she didn't have such an addictive personality it wouldn't worry me so much but she does. She's ... [snip!] ... he was still there. They have such a toxic relationship already.. I can just f**king imagine what it's going to be like now."</blockquote>




Yikes, what a mess!

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" That's absolutely disgusting. At this point I'm pretty much siding with the husband over the wife. Someone really needs to get those kids out of there."


They're both fucked to be honest. Neither is innocent.
Like, what he did to her is really shitty. But at the same time they have an AWFUL marriage. They fight constantly, never kiss or show any affection. Don't ever have a nice word for eachother. She was sitting there telling me 'I've been nothing but a good wife and mother and this is what I get, now I'm looking out for me'. I wanted to scream at her. She is an awful mom sometimes.. she fucked her oldest up. She's better with the younger ones but she is still pretty bad. She steals in front of them, smokes pot in front of them, treats their dad like crap infront of them, doesn't clean, collects welfare 'cause she's too lazy to get off her fuckin' ass.
Her husband is just about as bad.



user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" They're both fucked to be honest. Neither is innocent. Like, what he did to her is really shitty. ... [snip!] ... doesn't clean, collects welfare 'cause she's too lazy to get off her fuckin' ass. Her husband is just about as bad. "

I know I keep saying it lol but seriously, how are their kids still living with them???

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
12th Nov '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" I know I keep saying it lol but seriously, how are their kids still living with them???"


I've called CAS on them before, twice. And they have had them involved but they don't do shit besides send her kids to camp. She is good at prepping the kids to say what she wants. I doubt they will get taken tbh... their best chance is to get out young like their older brother and sister.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
12th Nov '12

she sounds absolutely f**king pathetic.
sure it's awful to get cheated on. it really is.



but that's not a good reason to go get yourself addicted to coke AGAIN.
as if that'll hurt her husband. it only hurts her and even more so her children.