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Masturbating preteens..........? TheCrazedInsomniac 1 child; Charlotte, North Carolina 2276 posts
13th Nov '12

I went to get the laptop out of my moms room and the door was locked but it wasn't shut all the way. I knew my brother was in there, but I thought he was in the shower because our hot water in our bathroom isn't working. Well I open the door and he is sitting butt naked on the floor masturbating. I shut the door really fast and just walked away. I know my mom or dad has never had "the talk" with him. This happened about 30 minutes ago and he refuses to come out of the room. I don't know what to do. I know he is embarrassed and I don't want to embarrass him any more about it. I don't know if I should let my mom or dad know so they could have a little talk with him or if I should say something and comfort him. I wouldn't know what to say. Or should I just not say nothing to him or my parents. Oh and he is 13.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
13th Nov '12

Why the hell would you tell on him? Lol Just pretend it never happened...

Elle&Cole⛄️ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 25972 posts
13th Nov '12

Awkward! Lol good luck..

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
13th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheCrazedInsomniac:</b>" I went to get the laptop out of my moms room and the door was locked but it wasn't shut all the way. ... [snip!] ... something and comfort him. I wouldn't know what to say. Or should I just not say nothing to him or my parents. Oh and he is 13."</blockquote>




I don't see why your parents need to know, everyone masterbates.

Jessi Graffia 1 child; Louisiana 423 posts
13th Nov '12

poor kid. what he is dong is normal. Dont tell. just never mention it again

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
13th Nov '12

Just pretend it never happened

TheCrazedInsomniac 1 child; Charlotte, North Carolina 2276 posts
13th Nov '12

I mean I just do not know to do. He really doesn't know much about sex. I know my mom had the talk with me around his age. They still see him as a little kid. He still plays yugio and Pokemon and other shit like that. Idk. I just don't know what to do.

tinana+2 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29680 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Just pretend it never happened"


:!: he's 13 and it's normal. I'm sure he's mortified that his older sister caught him... I couldn't imagine that sister having the parents talk to him about it... at least not for a REALLLLLY long time. lol



why in your mom's room though? :shock:

semicharmedlife 1 child; Blountstown, FL, United States 623 posts
13th Nov '12

It's already horrifying enough, don't tell the parents! I would just pretend it never happened.

lmitchell0012 Illinois 1759 posts
13th Nov '12

Honestly, it's not your business what your brother is doing. He's doing nothing wrong and what he's doing is perfectly normal for kids his age. Like everyone else said, just pretend it never happened.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
13th Nov '12

Does he have his own room? It would be kinda awkward that he was doing that in your moms room :S

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
13th Nov '12

don't tell on him..it is normal and you don't want to embarrass him like that and make him think that that is a dirty naughty thing to do. I say...maybe wait a week or so and then somehow ask your mom if she has ever had the sex talk with him and if she says no..just be like "well maybe you should...wasn't I around his age when you had the talk with me?"

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
13th Nov '12

I would just act like I didn't see anything. Or jsut say hey it's normal we all do it, if you feel like talking about it.



I don't know why you think your parents have not had "The TALk" with him yet because 13 is the perfect age for this... if not younger.

tinana+2 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29680 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting TheCrazedInsomniac:" I mean I just do not know to do. He really doesn't know much about sex. I know my mom had the talk with ... [snip!] ... still see him as a little kid. He still plays yugio and Pokemon and other shit like that. Idk. I just don't know what to do."


If you think your mom/dad will be DISCREET about it, then you could mention it. But if they're gonna be all crazy and embarrass him, just wait a bit and mention that it might be something they should discuss with him--- and by that, I mean SEX... not masturbation.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 30620 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting TheCrazedInsomniac:" I mean I just do not know to do. He really doesn't know much about sex. I know my mom had the talk with ... [snip!] ... still see him as a little kid. He still plays yugio and Pokemon and other shit like that. Idk. I just don't know what to do."


Pokemon & yugio have nothing to do with him masturbating, or his knowledge of sex.



You'd probably make the situation a lot worse if you brought it up. Just drop it.