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Being on top Flag 1 child; Newmarket, Ontario 1681 posts
13th Nov '12

DH hates me being on top- it doesn't 'work' for him. It works for me. But as a result,, he's always on top! I think he thinks it doesn't work because we tried with him sitting a few times, and I couldn't quite... bend it in that way?




I want to be on top! I want to handcuff his sorry ass to the bed and have my way with him.



But not if he's not going to get off.



How do you get REALLY good at being on top? I want to rock his frickin world not have him counting the minutes till he gets to go on top.

B-Baby 1 child; 1 angel baby; CARROLLTON, Virginia 1769 posts
13th Nov '12

omg i LOVE handcuff && blindfolds! haha but SO hates my handcuffs, he freaks out.. lol

Sarah-louise Powell Due November 17; 2 kids; Helensvale, Australia 210 posts
13th Nov '12

blind fold him
if you take away one of his senses like not being able to see he wont know whats going on then when you have worked him up to a point where he cant not enjoy it jump on top and have your wicked way with him

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17684 posts
13th Nov '12

Do you think you're good on top?



I use to HATE being on top, I thought I sucked at it and would always concentrate on how good I was doing and it would just turn me off. Then I got with BD and I was always on top and got lots of practice. Now I love being on top :D

Brandi Milam 3 angel babies; Tucson, Arizona 574 posts
13th Nov '12

Try leaning back and resting your hands on his knees and grinding hard on him. My honey loves that. Or you could try being on top but haing your back to his stomach.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
13th Nov '12

Maybe he just enjoys being in control?

Bai & Delilah's Mom 2 kids; Duncanville, Texas 1153 posts
13th Nov '12

I hate being on top but DH wants me to be. I just dont have the confidence for it, I think. I dont feel attrative and plus I have NO idea what id be doing.

Flag 1 child; Newmarket, Ontario 1681 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" Maybe he just enjoys being in control?"


He's going to learn to get the frig over it.



I think I lack confidence- I feel tubby so I don't give it my all, perhaps. Blindfolding may help.

Daniels Mommy♥ Due February 13; 1 child; Michigan 434 posts
13th Nov '12

While your pregnant can you be on top?

Flag 1 child; Newmarket, Ontario 1681 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting Tiffany [17weeks]:" While your pregnant can you be on top?"


When I was pregnant was the only time I could be on top!



Go for it!

B-Baby 1 child; 1 angel baby; CARROLLTON, Virginia 1769 posts
13th Nov '12
Quoting Tiffany [17weeks]:" While your pregnant can you be on top?"


oh course.. i perfer it, other wise SO squishes my belly l0l

Brandi Eastman 2 kids; Youngsville, Pennsylvania 1452 posts
13th Nov '12

so cuff him, do your thing till your happy, then finish with a bj. he'll love it

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15782 posts
status 13th Nov '12

I usually go on top until I am "done" and then he gets behind me.



I understand him because being on top is the only way I can get off...weird. lol

Leannah Carrasco 3 kids; Yuba City, California 346 posts
13th Nov '12

My hubby likes the on top he likes fast hard and very pornographic which embarrasses the hell out of me

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26; 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
13th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Flag:</b>" DH hates me being on top- it doesn't 'work' for him. It works for me. But as a result,, he's always on ... [snip!] ... get REALLY good at being on top? I want to rock his frickin world not have him counting the minutes till he gets to go on top."</blockquote>



Grind :)



This is only good if he is not circumcised