ok so im probably fixing to sound like a bitch. so im irritated right now with my SOs family. i have already had issues with his sister but we talked and i put it in the past and tried to start over. She said she was coming over tonight at 7. mainly because their brother is visiting from another state and of course to see the baby. SO gets angry with her because now that she is in this new relationship she never visits anymore. She will call him once a week begging him to go get her because her n bf are fighting then 10min later change her mind. my sister isnt in the picture at all so he thinks its even more important that his sister be involved. Anyway, she said she was coming at 7....she got here at 10. Well the baby was asleep in my arms and she comes in loud as shit, touching on the baby and talking all loud and said oh is she sleeping....duh! so i go to the other room with the baby and rock her. last time she came over the baby was sleep so she didnt get to hold her and called her mom crying saying i wouldnt let her hold the baby. really! so im like great..i dont want that again. baby wakes due to loudness and crys. well, i bring the baby out so his sister can hold her. literally every sentence she says has a curse word in it. i cant say anything because im accused of being mean. SO finally says watch your mouth. she says oh i didnt notice i was curseing. she kept on! like she cant control it. he had to tell her 5 times to stop. my baby is 3 months and i dont want her first word to be a curse word. then his sister gets on our computer to Skype with their mom....then she and her mom start arguing...loudly. both saying bad words. i like really!? everyone has issues but hes family is so dysfunctional and out in the open about it. i dont want my child to see and hear half the stuff that goes on. i feel bad. nobody is perfect but damn. this is the family im marrying into! ugh guess i just need to vent. and thats just the tip of the iceberg...i dont think his siter or brother are good role models for my daughter. neither is my sister
Your marring him not his family and I would keep them away from my child. When my dh and I got married his sister was a bitch towards me for no reason. I didn't care and I let her know I wasn't the type to take anybodies shit. She soon realized she had to act differently if she wanted to see her brother cause we wouldn't attend any family gathering that she would be at.
You aren't being a bitch. Honestly, I wouldn't have let her hold the baby when she woke her up being loud & obnoxious. It's good your SO got onto her so that you didn't have to seem like the bad guy.