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Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
14th Nov '12

Police, hospital, now.



And please be as careful as you can in the future not to put yourself in ANY situation that you do not feel comfortable in (not that it's ANY excuse for what happened to you).

luvmy2grlz&boy! 19 kids; Neepawa, Manitoba 2371 posts
14th Nov '12

You need to go to the police NOW! I'm so sorry you had to go through something like that. That is definitely rape. :(

Tig Ol' Bitties 2 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 2683 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Rd.:" That is definitely rape... I'm not saying it's your fault, but you really shouldn't have led him on ... [snip!] ... message... That being said it was not your fault that happened, it was rape, and you need to contact the police and not him."


Who gives a f**k what he thought? He is a RAPIST.

*...*...*...* 1 child; Michigan 8230 posts
14th Nov '12

I would consider it rape hands down.



But be prepared for a fight in court if he hires a lawyer.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
14th Nov '12

I am going to sound like ass I guess, yes if you told him no you were raped, and for that I am sorry. You need to get tested and plan B all that. File a report but understand, it's going to drag you through the mud. He is going to say you consented, willingly sent pictures and all that. It'll be a hard case to prosecute.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting That-Girl:" You need to GTFO. Take all your judgemental nonsense outta here. You are unbelieveably ignorant on the concept of rape."


Not trying to be judgemental. I edited a little because I don't mean to sound insincere. I don't need to GTFO of anywhere. YOU are unbelievable ignorant if you think a cop will believe this mess. However sending pics and agreeing to what she agreed to makes this sound ridiculous. I have a right to my opinion. She posted behind an account and I am not picking on her intentionally. She asked a question and I answered.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 14991 posts
14th Nov '12

It does not matter what she did preceding the incident. She could have been giving him a BJ and decided she was done. It gives him no right whatsoever to do what he did. It's not her fault in the least. People are allowed to go as far as they're comfortable with and then say no more.

luvmy2grlz&boy! 19 kids; Neepawa, Manitoba 2371 posts
14th Nov '12

I don't care if she took every piece of clothes off of herself, and laid next to him in a bed. She said NO!! That is what counts!

Crystallized Due February 24; 1 child; California 431 posts
14th Nov '12

If you told him no, and he did it anyway, you were raped.
It doesn't matter where you were, what you did, who you are, or how many pictures you sent him.
That being said, I do think that it will be a hard case to prosecute.
I'm so sorry this happened to you.

*...*...*...* 1 child; Michigan 8230 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" I am going to sound like ass I guess, yes if you told him no you were raped, and for that I am sorry. ... [snip!] ... you through the mud. He is going to say you consented, willingly sent pictures and all that. It'll be a hard case to prosecute."


A very hard case to prosecute. Lots of grey areas for the lawyers to play around with.

Tig Ol' Bitties 2 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 2683 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" It does not matter what she did preceding the incident. She could have been giving him a BJ and decided ... [snip!] ... what he did. It's not her fault in the least. People are allowed to go as far as they're comfortable with and then say no more."


Exactly.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" It does not matter what she did preceding the incident. She could have been giving him a BJ and decided ... [snip!] ... what he did. It's not her fault in the least. People are allowed to go as far as they're comfortable with and then say no more."


I agree and I do NOT think that this is her fault. I just think that everyone needs to think about impressions that they may give when sending naked pictures. Furthermore, texting and messaging all day yesterday but not getting a response. I have a degree in criminal justice and a rapist will do all they can to make it look like this was planned, and now she's upset that he doesn't want to be with her.

Zeke's Mama Due September 26; 1 child; Pensacola, Florida 5155 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana +2:</b>" Well, this is in sex & relationships, so............ Who in their right mind would send naked pics ... [snip!] ... I'm truly very sorry. If you said no, no means no. Nobody deserves it. But your actions here weren't innocent in the least."</blockquote>




That doesn't matter. She could have consented to sex, changed her mind and said no during and if he didn't stop, that's rape. Regardless of her actions up to that point, she said no.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting That-Girl:" Exactly."


Boo I totally thought I had the only That Girl name.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 14991 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting tinana +2:" I agree and I do NOT think that this is her fault. I just think that everyone needs to think about ... [snip!] ... a rapist will do all they can to make it look like this was planned, and now she's upset that he doesn't want to be with her."

That's true and I do think it would be very hard to prosecute in this situation. But if she does go to the police, there will be a record if, God forbid, something like this happens in the future.