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Mr. Inappropriate 2 kids; Talofofo, GU, Guam 15032 posts
14th Nov '12

As someone who has it, checking for low-T (especially at such a young age) should be a path of last resort or if the lack of sexual interest lasts for years.



The gels are a PITA to apply and mean no physical contact with women and children. The shots turn a guy into the Incredible Hulk for a day or so, then the guy will experience a slow drop until the 2 weeks are up for the next shot.



Rule out other potential causes first, beginning with having an open dialogue with him. It could be stress, depression, weight gain, boredom, etc.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" *couldn't care less And I don't give two shits about the person you are I just comment on what I find ... [snip!] ... on what I find ridiculous, clueless or just outright stupid. I can't help that is an often occurrence for you. <shrug>"


Thats so nice of you.

Mr. Inappropriate 2 kids; Talofofo, GU, Guam 15032 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Because I happen to disagree with the generalization, ... [snip!] ... Most men have decreased sex drive once they reach middle age, that is a fact. Your husband is the exception, not the majority."


Sex drives decrease, yes...but they don't disappear. It's not like our dick and balls fall off once we reach "middle age".

wombie 4 kids; Zimbabwe 73281 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Mr. Ant:" As someone who has it, checking for low-T (especially at such a young age) should be a path of last resort ... [snip!] ... causes first, beginning with having an open dialogue with him. It could be stress, depression, weight gain, boredom, etc."


perfectly stated

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" THIS People suggested spicing things up or scheduling seductive alone time but the OP wouldn't touch ... [snip!] ... of it. Only the Low-T suggestion :roll: So I agree. Why jump to the extreme without touching on everything in the middle first."


the OP said NOTHING about low T..

it was a possible reason WHY.. for f**ks sake get over yourself.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" You do not want to go there with me. So check yourself before you come at me like this again."


omg. this is rediculous. what are you gonna do? i didnt come at you anyway.. im tell you to get over it, you think your so high and mighty and shit. the OP never said anything about low t.. so why say that to make us feel like idiots?

.Enigma. clusterfuck, LA, Sri Lanka 107102 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Mr. Ant:" Sex drives decrease, yes...but they don't disappear. It's not like our dick and balls fall off once we reach "middle age"."


well thank the FSM for that :lol:

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" OMFG Read again. Try to understand and comprehend. I didn't say SHE said it, I said that is the only suggestion she touched on. Get it, get it? I doubt it :roll: "


she didnt "touch on it" where.. show me where. she quoted me, and only said he isnt getting from anywhere else, and also quoted others. and you said the OP... as in the orginal poster? or POST. because in the actual post never does it say low t anywhere.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" She only responded to a few people. One that said boredom and then yours which mentioned low-t being ... [snip!] ... I am seriously done with your raggedy unstable ass. Anyway, OP best of luck and I hope y'all get something figured out."


your "done" with me because you cant prove it. stop being such a b***h for once. your not always right.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
14th Nov '12

Holy shit. I sense alot of anger in this thread. lol

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Good god :? I am done with you because I already explained what I meant, more than once. Derp."


i thought you were done?

MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD) 66 kids; Sterling, Illinois 11519 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i thought you were done?"


omg Phuket!!!!! your babys toooo cute!!!!

MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD) 66 kids; Sterling, Illinois 11519 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i thought you were done?"


omg Phuket!!!!! your babys toooo cute!!!!

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting AlexisNJCIII(ASD):" omg Phuket!!!!! your babys toooo cute!!!!"


thanks girl :)

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
14th Nov '12

Why all the rage, Baby gaga?



My husband is 35 and still going strong. Men's sex drives are supposed to decrease as they age, but everyone is different. DH and I are very well paired with our appetites and we never miss a day, and usually have morning and nighttime sex. If he stopped wanting sex all together I would be concerned. Not that he was having an affair, because I trust him 100% but I would be concerned that he was depressed, stressed, or something in our relationship was bothering him. Internal emotional issues can cause physical problems.



You need to ask him if something is wrong.