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SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" Um no. Just... No. If he needs a break he can go get a coffee or something. Normal men do not take breaks from their families every night and hang out in drug houses."</blockquote>



Seriously! That is not taking a break, that is being a f**king loser. If he needs a break tell him to go hit some balls at the batting cages or run out for a coffee. Not going and hanging out in a drug house for two days.
Why would you even want him around?

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22020 posts
14th Nov '12

Honestly OP addiction is a really hard thing to get past. If you want to be with him I would suggest getting help

jaydin & cadence mommy 2 kids; Norwich, Connecticut 78 posts
14th Nov '12

hes also a drinker hes not a bad drunk but when he drinks to much he just passes rite out, and this is the first time hes really been outof the house beside when he works since shes been born but when i was pregnant he was hardly ever home heused to go and get get drunk every nite pretty much and i told him get whatever u want to do out of ur system out before our daughter come becuz im not going to put up with you never being home and coming back all shit faced when shes here

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22020 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Yeah, sounds like he has more than one addiction. I'd basically give him an ultimatum. Either get help with the addictions or get out of our life."


This!

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Yeah, sounds like he has more than one addiction. I'd basically give him an ultimatum. Either get help with the addictions or get out of our life."</blockquote>




Absolutely!
Op, you have another child though. So when you were giving him until your daughter arrived to get it out of his system, he was still doing this around your older child. Why is that ok?

Heather ♥ Due February 27; 3 kids; Miami, Florida 2432 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Even with coke you do eventually pass out. It might take several hours (or days) but you do fall asleep at some point."


he's only there for a few hours though before he is passing out, atleast from what i read.

Heather ♥ Due February 27; 3 kids; Miami, Florida 2432 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Yeah, sounds like he has more than one addiction. I'd basically give him an ultimatum. Either get help with the addictions or get out of our life."


!!!!!

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" he's only there for a few hours though before he is passing out, atleast from what i read."</blockquote>




Nope it said he was there for more than 24 hours, two nights in a row and came home at like 2:30 in the morning. Not a few hours.

Heather ♥ Due February 27; 3 kids; Miami, Florida 2432 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" he's only there for a few hours though before ... [snip!] ... it said he was there for more than 24 hours, two nights in a row and came home at like 2:30 in the morning. Not a few hours."


well, i can't read.



regardless of how long he is gone, if he is or isn't passing out, ect... he is hanging out a trap house and that isn't good.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" well, i can't read. regardless of how long he is gone, if he is or isn't passing out, ect... he is hanging out a trap house and that isn't good."</blockquote>




I know, it's gross and she allowed him to do it through her pregnancy in front of her older child. I'm sorry but that is wrong.

jaydin & cadence mommy 2 kids; Norwich, Connecticut 78 posts
14th Nov '12

my older child lives with his father so hes not around my so that much

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting jaydin & cadence mommy:</b>" my older child lives with his father so hes not around my so that much"</blockquote>



I'm glad to hear that.

Tasha & Nika Due December 22 (boy); 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 16024 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting jaydin & cadence mommy:" i need some advise on what to do here ive already ended the relationship but SO doesn't think its something ... [snip!] ... bullshit and he doesnt understand why im pissed and why i ended our relationship well ladies do you think i went to far? "



I think his priorities are screwed up.



Just because he works, doesn't give him the excuse to pull stuff like that.



If there's a raid on that house, he can get arrested and charged with drug possession or worse..



I don't see how it's just okay to pop in and out of a crack house, I really don't.. that's not a healthy way to 'unwind' after work.