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Blaine Edwards 1 child; Georgia 13858 posts
14th Nov '12

Sounds like a dumbass or a crazy. kid's probably better off being adopted.

Harleys mommy77 Due December 19 (boy); 1 child; Ohio 226 posts
14th Nov '12

Quoting ~JeNn~ BeAn~:" I would consider her an idiot!



Me too!

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
14th Nov '12

Id condsider it *stupid* and very selfish...



My son was in nicu for 6 weeks I didn't even see him when I dellivered, they took him and ran to other side of room, and he was off for transport, I seen him for 1 minute before they left with him he was already intubated, I knew I wasn't going to have that bonding time from the middle of my pregnancy... and was prepared for it, I wasn't allowed to bf or even hold him till he was 3 weeks old... giving him away never crossed my mind, even when dr.s told me what was wrong with him, he was my baby,

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34011 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting khigh:" Selfish? No. Stupid? Yes."



:!:

user banned California 8675 posts
14th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blaine Edwards:</b>" Sounds like a dumbass or a crazy. kid's probably better off being adopted."</blockquote>




Thi$!

TrollMama Due December 19; Beaumont, Texas 352 posts
14th Nov '12

I think it's the fear talking. Once she saw that kid I bet she'd come out of the damn hospital bed, stitches and catheter and all, if someone tried to take that child into services :D

r a b b i t ™ 1 child; Wildcat stuck in the Cards-nation, KY, United States 27518 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting khigh:" Selfish? No. Stupid? Yes."


That's why I asked.
Everyone's saying she's being selfish, but I see it more as stupid.

Pickle Due September 2; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 3685 posts
status 14th Nov '12
Quoting TrollMama:" I think it's the fear talking. Once she saw that kid I bet she'd come out of the damn hospital bed, stitches and catheter and all, if someone tried to take that child into services :D"

Im scared to death about labor and birth but i would go through hell to get my baby here healthy. i could never imagine saying that no matter what emotions i was feeling. but your probably right she's talking out of fear and stupidity.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
14th Nov '12

Wow that's incredibly stupid.



I guess I should've given up both of my babies for adoption since they were both born via c-section, eh? I'll let them know that we haven't bonded like kids who were born vaginally. :roll:



And TBH, I'm more bonded with my kids than I am with my mother who had me vaginally.

Pickle Due September 2; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 3685 posts
status 14th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Some people really do care more about their "birth experience" than the actual baby. It's quite sad actually."

Very.

TrollMama Due December 19; Beaumont, Texas 352 posts
14th Nov '12

I can imagine it being fear, fear makes you irrational (ie stupid). I was scared off motherhood entirely because I was so sure I wouldn't bond and I'd resent my faultless infant for my body's changes and the discomfort of pregnancy and delivery and all the societal pressure of being a mom. I don't think that way now.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
14th Nov '12

wtf!!! LOL...Well maybe the baby is better off if shes going to throw a fit like that

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103409 posts
status 14th Nov '12

Stupid, but I really dgaf

and this is not suprising in the age of birth experiences having more weight than actual babies

TrollMama Due December 19; Beaumont, Texas 352 posts
14th Nov '12

Well... some people have really bad birth experiences. Like, horror stories. They need counseling and shit. I'm not saying it should be more important than the child but birth is an experience and like any other, not all of them are good. Or even tolerable, sometimes.

Pickle Due September 2; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 3685 posts
status 14th Nov '12
Quoting TrollMama:" Well... some people have really bad birth experiences. Like, horror stories. They need counseling and ... [snip!] ... important than the child but birth is an experience and like any other, not all of them are good. Or even tolerable, sometimes."

But every birth is different so this girl can't go off of someone elses experience and obviously not her own since it doesn't sound like she's had a c section before. Nobody ever said giving birth was easy but you get the best thing ever in return so who cares how you got them here as long as they are healthy :/