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Mommie Dearest. Due September 17; 17 kids; Mississippi 1899 posts
14th Nov '12

Good luck! I almost was stuck in the same situation , but had a miscarriage. I want another one so bad , but my husband is MAKING me wait til February.



Glad to know there are other momma's crazy like me :P



It probably won't be hard since you are pretty fertile afterwards :)

Irish Twins Mama ♥ 2 kids; Iowa 2147 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Mommie Dearest.:" Good luck! I almost was stuck in the same situation , but had a miscarriage. I want another one so bad ... [snip!] ... Glad to know there are other momma's crazy like me :P It probably won't be hard since you are pretty fertile afterwards :) "

I really hope it happens before I get my period back but no idea when I'll ovulate so we're kinda just trying really hard lol.

Bethany Umbel 1 child; Brook Park, Ohio 159 posts
17th Nov '12

My son is 6 months old, and I soo badly want another baby. But SO doesn't. Financially we are in a good place, but he is just so paranoid. He got me a cat to get rid of my baby fever, it lasted two days. Totally not the same. lol

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
17th Nov '12

Goodluck,sending baby dust your way!

Mommie Dearest. Due September 17; 17 kids; Mississippi 1899 posts
18th Nov '12

Just to say though , even though I do want another baby , I'm glad that I don't have one. My daughter is so much fun now and I love being able to spend all this time with her. I think they deserve a good year at least to just be loved on their own.

Irish Twins Mama ♥ 2 kids; Iowa 2147 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Mommie Dearest.:" Just to say though , even though I do want another baby , I'm glad that I don't have one. My daughter ... [snip!] ... I love being able to spend all this time with her. I think they deserve a good year at least to just be loved on their own. "


So what about the second one? They don't get that one year alone. I can love my kids both equally and both just as much as I love my son now.

Mommie Dearest. Due September 17; 17 kids; Mississippi 1899 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" So what about the second one? They don't get that one year alone. I can love my kids both equally and both just as much as I love my son now."


I'm just sharing what I feel. I lost my baby that I was going to have in February. I would trade anything to still have that baby back in a heartbeat.



The only thing is that with what all my baby girl is doing, I'm glad I have that time to give her that extra attention. When I was pregnant for those three months , I had hardly any energy to do anything with her. I got home from work and all I wanted to do was sleep on the couch and I felt a bit guilty about it.



And if you wait until you second child is a little more independent (walking, talking, ect) you don't have to give the special attention that a baby needs. I'm not trying to say don't have your second baby now , I was just giving you a pro to waiting.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
18th Nov '12

good luck!! but your also pretty young to decide that your done having kids yet...lots of people dont even start having kids till mid-late 20's so by then you may want more. I know that i would feel imcomplete saying i was done having kids at the age of 20 haha.

lauren [+2] Due March 14; 2 kids; Georgia 13472 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."


mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.

lauren [+2] Due March 14; 2 kids; Georgia 13472 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."


mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.

lauren [+2] Due March 14; 2 kids; Georgia 13472 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting ℳommy to Kai♥:" Probably going to get judged. I haven't told anyone yet, but I'm telling you ladies on baby gaga. I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm very excited, hopefully there are some ladies that can relate. I know some people might think I'm an idiot. :p That's okay."


mine are 12 months and 9 days apart. its really not that bad. my 3 yr old is way more outgoing and beats up her brother a lot... but its not terribly hard to handle both of them.