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Me and boyfriend melcarter TTC since Apr 2013; 1 child; LAKEBAY, Washington 126 posts
14th Nov '12

We moved in together about 1 month ago its going great we have a very passionate romantic relationship.. but we never have sex ..
My son lives with my full time now.. and was staying at his dads everyweekend.. but thats a different story
My boyfriend loves my son, like it was his own child.. and has been very good to us both.. better than my sons dad..
However .. he doesnt want to have sex while my son is in the next room sleeping at bed time.. how can i explain to him that its ok.. he doesnt want my kid to hear anything... what would u do in this situation someone help..

Leigh Riggins 1 child; Rancho Cordova, California 443 posts
14th Nov '12

Does he wanna go forever without sex or somthing?? my goodness

melcarter TTC since Apr 2013; 1 child; LAKEBAY, Washington 126 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Leigh Riggins:" Does he wanna go forever without sex or somthing?? my goodness"

Well no but we havent had sex in like 2 weeks.. and i asked him why and he said he doesnt want my son to come in and see what we are doing if he wakes up now that he knows how to open doors and things like that..

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
14th Nov '12

Get a lock for your door. Do it after his bedtime. Turn on some music or a movie to block the sound.



Simple

Leigh Riggins 1 child; Rancho Cordova, California 443 posts
14th Nov '12

Maybe make it fast? or a lock just in case..just dont ignore him if he tries getting in?? I dont know thats a tough situation...I was thinking you guys haven't had sex at all lol that would be bad

melcarter TTC since Apr 2013; 1 child; LAKEBAY, Washington 126 posts
14th Nov '12
Quoting Leigh Riggins:" Maybe make it fast? or a lock just in case..just dont ignore him if he tries getting in?? I dont know thats a tough situation...I was thinking you guys haven't had sex at all lol that would be bad"


like i said we are a very passionate loving couple fast isnt in our vocabulary LOL

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12

Eh as someone who walked in on her parents at 7 I can say it would not scar him for life. Tell him to stop acting like a baby and to have sex for gods sakes.

user banned Due April 15 (girl); Japan 15 posts
15th Nov '12

Last month, it was my birthday, the anniversary of my late husband

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting reena22:" Last month, it was my birthday, the anniversary of my late husband