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user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Where the hell is the logic in that? There are loads of women out there who have shitty home lives as ... [snip!] ... And your mother did not make you NOT use birth control reliably, or force your dudes to wear a condom before busting a nut... "


:roll: she didn't teach me any better either..

Legendary Due September 3; 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 54251 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" :roll: she didn't teach me any better either.."


I'm sure after baby #1 you could have figured it out.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I'm sure after baby #1 you could have figured it out. "


she never taught me about relationships or men.. i had to learn on my own. after baby # 1 i was still looking for something.



eta: she did teach me something.. the wrong thing.

Crazy one 3 kids; California 17049 posts
15th Nov '12

my kids
me
my husband

Legendary Due September 3; 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 54251 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" she never taught me about relationships or men.. i had to learn on my own. after baby # 1 i was still looking for something."


Found it:



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user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" What's the excuse for not using birth control? I'm pretty sure you could have made your boyfriends rubber up before getting it on. "


i loved them and wanted them to stay with me, we already went over this.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18064 posts
15th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Oh wow. I'm so sorry. :( I've got cousins who were in a similar situation, except the mother was encouraging them to steal for her and she did drugs. It was awful. "</blockquote>




Don't be with out the shit I went through I don't think I would be half the mom I am.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" It's called planned parenthood and the internet. I'm sure you could have figured it out. After the first kid I'm pretty sure you figured out how pregnancy and baby making worked. "


I didn't know about the internet back then :)

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Which prevented you magically from using birth control? "


i wanted to get pregnant. at least 3 of my pregnancies were planned for me.

user banned Due September 18; 1 child; California 21617 posts
15th Nov '12

My daughter. Absolutely, hands down, no doubt about it.

Legendary Due September 3; 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 54251 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Hence you getting pregnant is YOUR fault. Not your mom's. "


:!:
You're problem is accountability OP, you're always on here trying to justify shit asking us who we put first in our lives, if you should leave your son across the country, shit like that.. It's time you took some responsibility for the actions you made as an adult.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Hence you getting pregnant is YOUR fault. Not your mom's. "


but it all goes back to her not giving me enough attention and love that i went to such desperate measures to go about getting those things the wrong way.

Crazy one 3 kids; California 17049 posts
15th Nov '12

I had a fucked up life and never knew love until I met my husband and if anything not having love being ignored abandoned mentally and physically abused and molested just made me not want to get close to people and even now the only people that I can say I love you to without hesitation are my kids i can't even tell my husband that I love him even though I do. My kids are the only people I can be affectionate with too because I never had that but I want better for them and I am glad that it came naturally to love them and care for them even though it was harder to do with my daughter.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
15th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Cade*Mak*Col*:</b>" Always my children.... I feel like that shouldn't even be a question for anyone. However, if I didn't ... [snip!] ... i got pregnant and I knew continuing the pregnancy would probably kill.me, id abort. So in that case my husband comes first."</blockquote>




I think that means your other kids come first

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Crazy one:" I had a fucked up life and never knew love until I met my husband and if anything not having love being ... [snip!] ... for them and I am glad that it came naturally to love them and care for them even though it was harder to do with my daughter."


thats where you were lucky and i wasn't.. you were able to find a husband or at least someone who loved/cared about you before you fucked up your life. i wasn't that fortunate. it took me 10 years