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_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Not necessarily. That isn't stated. A top ... [snip!] ... a sandwich before I pull my husband out of a burning building but my child's needs will always take precedent over my husbands."


I might be, but I've seen so many woman that really do mean that. They are SO wrapped up in their kids lives (before and after they move out) that they allow their entire relationship with the husband to diminish under the guise of kids being her "top priority." Because I believe that my marriage is a large part of our family success, it's in my kids best interest that I also keep their father happy and our marriage strong.



That's why I say I don't have a clear cut "priority" especially once they move out. They don't get every little thing they want from me, they have to split time and attention with their father adn I think it's good for them.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
15th Nov '12

Also want to add that I am 21 and my mom is single, but even if she was dating (she plans to start shortly) she would never put a man before her flesh and blood. And when I have children, I will do the same.



Parenting is a lifelong duty. My grandparents still "parent" their children, even though they are in their late forties-60 years old. That's what part of being a parent is about.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
15th Nov '12
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15th Nov '12

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MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Every decent mother (including the ones who want to pretend to be decent) would say their kids without hesitation. Who comes first in YOUR life?"


Guess my mother is a selfish undecent twit then :-P

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Guess my mother is a selfish undecent twit then :-P"


you said on the first page that you come first, lol. unless you don't have kids. which is weird... lol

user banned California 8675 posts
15th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Same here. Unless of course she was very ill or had just had a child and couldn't drive (I wasn't allowed ... [snip!] ... birth). But, hopefully I'll do my job as a parent well enough that she'd never call for something so stupid at an adult age."</blockquote>




Well in that case yes but other than that I probably wouldnt.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I'm grown. My sister and I are still #1. Example: my dad was in the middle of hanging drywall on a side ... [snip!] ... in case something else went wrong. Why? Because even though I'm 24, moved out, and have a child of my own, we still come first."


:!:



You've got an awesome father, btw. Reminds me of my grandpa. :)

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Every single thread of hers is about freaking sex... Every. Single. One. Sex and c*m. "



interesting...



sorry, it's f**king weird as shit to me that people w/ no kids & no intention of having kids anytime soon come on here.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Every single thread of hers is about freaking sex... Every. Single. One. Sex and c*m. "


Is not! I have plenty of posts about relationship advice, and other things as well. I would add religion too, but I don't seem to see any part of the forums for that =\.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62265 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Every single thread of hers is about freaking sex... Every. Single. One. Sex and c*m. "


Ew.

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BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62265 posts
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Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Is not! I have plenty of posts about relationship advice, and other things as well. I would add religion too, but I don't seem to see any part of the forums for that =\."


She is talking about the topics you have posted.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
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