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Burs92447 TTC since Mar 2009; California 157 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" So I am single, well when I am talking to a new guy, or trying to it is such a turn off when they always ... [snip!] ... see a pic of me. I also HATE when dudes I just start talking to feel the need to ask me for dirty pics, like uhhm NO. /vent."


Seems reasonable for them to ask for a basic picture.



But if they are asking for topless/nude pics, seems like an easy way to cross them off your list.

Burs92447 TTC since Mar 2009; California 157 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" No, I mean they have seen pics of me before that I had up on whatever website. Next time, I will send this pic. Hahahaahaha. Sexy right? "


mmmmm that pie looks good!

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting shes*almost*one!:" eh, cant really judge a guy on just wanting to see more pics. "


Well if he wants to see nudes, yep. If he wants just a regular pic, no lol.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting Burs92447:" Seems reasonable for them to ask for a basic picture. But if they are asking for topless/nude pics, seems like an easy way to cross them off your list."


It is funny because, I send them a regular pic and then they want a nude..like uhmm no lol.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Well if he wants to see nudes, yep. If he wants just a regular pic, no lol."


hahaha okay well yeah, i wouldnt send nudes so fast! im sure he has no prob sending pics of his little hairy cocker!

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 2 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8740 posts
15th Nov '12

Or when they send a pic of their dick and say "your turn"



Bitch I didn't ask to see your little pecker so don't expect me to "return the favor" more like do us both a favor and stop sending those pics! LOL :)

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" Or when they send a pic of their dick and say "your turn" Bitch I didn't ask to see your little pecker ... [snip!] ... your little pecker so don't expect me to "return the favor" more like do us both a favor and stop sending those pics! LOL :)"


Bahahahaha. Ikr?! I am like "hell no!"

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting shes*almost*one!:" hahaha okay well yeah, i wouldnt send nudes so fast! im sure he has no prob sending pics of his little hairy cocker!"


Oh ikr. Hell no I wouldn't, I value my self a bit more than just send nudes to any one loll. Guys, on the other hand...most are whores as is so I don't put that past them.

Burs92447 TTC since Mar 2009; California 157 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" It is funny because, I send them a regular pic and then they want a nude..like uhmm no lol."


I've done plenty of online dating. I don't think I've ever asked for a nude or topless pic. (Although, it's been 8+ years, and it wasn't quite as easy for people to send pics back then.



I would have just thought it to be rude, and that the girls would think I'm a creep if I asked. But then, maybe that's why I've always had a hard time getting laid in my single days. :)

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" So I am single, well when I am talking to a new guy, or trying to it is such a turn off when they always ... [snip!] ... see a pic of me. I also HATE when dudes I just start talking to feel the need to ask me for dirty pics, like uhhm NO. /vent."


So send me some pics? =X




Sorry couldn't resist that LOL.

*mommy to 3* Due March 7 (girl); 2 kids; Virginia 1167 posts
15th Nov '12

ONE regular pic in addition to the ones you have online....is ok....But anything sexual is a HUGE no no. Whatever happened to dignity and making a guy work for it? Not saying that you dont, but it seems like alot of men dont want to work for a classy woman. I would not lower my standards to send men i dont even know very well a dirty pic. And if they couldnt accept that then they could forget my phone number....

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting Burs92447:" I've done plenty of online dating. I don't think I've ever asked for a nude or topless pic. (Although, ... [snip!] ... would think I'm a creep if I asked. But then, maybe that's why I've always had a hard time getting laid in my single days. :)"

Noo! I really admire a dude who isn't a perv all out there with things like that, even if he is only trying to get laid..I hate when dudes make it too obvious kwim? lol. It is a HUGE turn off when guys are straight out desperate for it.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
15th Nov '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Noo! I really admire a dude who isn't a perv all out there with things like that, even if he is only ... [snip!] ... get laid..I hate when dudes make it too obvious kwim? lol. It is a HUGE turn off when guys are straight out desperate for it."


Sadly online you tend to get a lot of weirdos like that. There are some good one's just a lot of skeezy ones you have to sift through.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" So send me some pics? =X Sorry couldn't resist that LOL."


:lol::lol:

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30977 posts
status 15th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Sadly online you tend to get a lot of weirdos like that. There are some good one's just a lot of skeezy ones you have to sift through."


VERY true.