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    • Over reacting a lot! -- Votes: 45
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danielle+3 3 kids; Crestview, Florida 131 posts
16th Nov '12

shes not overreacting i would feel the same way....

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

I think you are overreacting a bit. - its in the past, you knew that he'd been with her and had moved past all that.



HOWEVER
I don't see why he would want to keep it. To me that is completely f-ed up. That tattoo is symbolic of his and her relationship. They are NOT together any more, so why would he want a constant reminder of her? I don't care how cool it is. Id want that crap off my body!



Seems like something's not right or he'd agree to have it removed.

lil*Mama*Bear 2 kids; Veneta, Oregon 4957 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" I think you are overreacting a big. - its in the past, you knew that he'd been with her and had moved ... [snip!] ... don't care how cool it is. Id want that crap off my body! Seems like something's not right or he'd agree to have it removed."</blockquote>




That shit hurts. I knew a guy who had his ex sides name removed off his finger (so very small) and he didn't go back to finish. It's not just a one time zap, you're done. It can take like 10 times. And depending on the size it can't be a ton of money.

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting lil*Mama*Bear

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting lil*Mama*Bear
user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

I'd still do it, or alter it drastically at least I would never subject my DH to living with a constant reminder of my affair.
But that doesn't mean I think this should be the breaking point for her relationship. The two of them need to come to terms with this and reach some agreement. If it bothers her that much, he should care enough about her to at least respect her feelings and do something to fix his lingering errs.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Safka9973:" I think you are overreacting a bit. - its in the past, you knew that he'd been with her and had moved ... [snip!] ... don't care how cool it is. Id want that crap off my body! Seems like something's not right or he'd agree to have it removed."

Give he has cheated several times, it's a sign she needs to move on.

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Give he has cheated several times, it's a sign she needs to move on."</blockquote>




You probably right.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Give he has cheated several times, it's a sign she needs to move on."</blockquote> You probably right."

I always am :-P

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I always am :-P"</blockquote>




Not possible- I walk on water.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I always am :-P"</blockquote> Not possible- I walk on water."

You should patent that ability

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" You should patent that ability"</blockquote>




I don't want to be discovered.



But I might give Charles Xavier a call

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" You should patent that ability"</blockquote> I don't want to be discovered. But I might give Charles Xavier a call"


Of course jesus might try to sue :-P

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
16th Nov '12

Oh that guy? He's so old school.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6013 posts
16th Nov '12

I have realized that I was over reacting a bit we sat down and talked about it. he told me that he didn't realize how bad him having it would hurt me. When we wede doberman talking he showed me his near tattoo. He had taken the old one and put our wedding symbol , the irish clade aka the hands woth the crown and the heart. The old obenew is still there but it is like superimposed over the top and he put my initials in the heart. I feel like a b***h now for blowing up it just hurt so bad. He said he understood that I had been hurt and was acting out, which made me feel like a heel. He says he loves me and never wants me to feel like I wasn't the one he loved more than anything and he hadn't thought that him having that tattoo would be doing just that making me feel like that.