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glowinthedark 2 kids; Norway 29301 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" No one likes screaming kids. Esp in a coffee shop. While what she said was highly inappropriate, she ... [snip!] ... The woman has to earn a living just like you, or your Husband. She has to eat, just like you do. God you sound like a b***h."


Oh yeah. SHE is the one that sounds like a b***h.



:roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll:

glowinthedark 2 kids; Norway 29301 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" Eh I agree with her, I can't stand it when people don't get a handle on their kids. I don't let my 9 1/2 month old scream in a place, it's rude to other people."


You don't let them? How exactly do you stop them?

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting My♥Maja&Livija:" So I was at Safeway picking up dinner and decided to get a Starbucks. I have a "sensitive" 3.5 yr old ... [snip!] ... given a survey and you better believe this will end up in the comment section of did I experience any problems during my visit!"


RUDE! Omg i would have lost it, i would prolly have said something to her.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting glowinthedark:" Oh yeah. SHE is the one that sounds like a b***h. :roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll::roll:"

Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurn :lol: LMAO

J+K= Bri&Colton:) 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 8468 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting glowinthedark:</b>" You don't let them? How exactly do you stop them?"</blockquote>




By correcting her and getting her to calm down, you know, being a parent.

glowinthedark 2 kids; Norway 29301 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting glowinthedark:</b>" You don't let them? How exactly do you ... [snip!] ... How exactly do you stop them?"</blockquote> By correcting her and getting her to calm down, you know, being a parent."


Yeah, you must have magical powers if you "correct them" before they do it, her kid screamed once.

glowinthedark 2 kids; Norway 29301 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurn :lol: LMAO"


Laaaammmme

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
16th Nov '12

That was rude of her to say, I HATE it when people stare at screaming or kids just throwing fits, you have all those people looking like if they've never seen it before, acting all offended o_O while I do agree that in a situation like that I personally would have just left. I Have a bratty 15 month old right now and he's in the phaze where he just throws the biggest fits I try my best to teach him that it's wrong and No but he's still has to catch on, But really we don't need anyone staring or saying rude comments when they see we're struggling ughhh inconsiderate people

J+K= Bri&Colton:) 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 8468 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting glowinthedark:</b>" Yeah, you must have magical powers if you "correct them" before they do it, her kid screamed once."</blockquote>




She mentioned that well after I had commented so nice try moron. :roll:

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting J+K=Bri+? :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting glowinthedark:</b>" Yeah, you must have magical powers if you ... [snip!] ... do it, her kid screamed once."</blockquote> She mentioned that well after I had commented so nice try moron. :roll:"

Right. Of course she did all she was supposed to do AFTER pages of people commenting.

J+K= Bri&Colton:) 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 8468 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Right. Of course she did all she was supposed to do AFTER pages of people commenting."</blockquote>




Lmao! Only AFTER people said "well it's rude to let your children scream" does she say, well she only yelled once. :roll: yeah sure. Not mention that in your OP, then it would have made the lady making the coffee sound rude had the kid yelled once and OP had stopped her.

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
16th Nov '12

Eh with two kids I probably would have went to a drive thru somewhere to get a coffee if I needed it. (i don't drink coffee, just saying what I would do) The lady did sound rude though. I know sometimes my kid will scream while shopping but he doesn't scream the whole time I'm in the store. He'll get upset at some point of being in the store every time and I have to shop, he won't do it for long though. When in public you are probably at some point going to hear a kid screaming and I don't get mad if I hear an upset child.

My♥Maja&Livija Due March 1; 2 kids; Santa Cruz, California 27348 posts
16th Nov '12

Okay for those drive thru people WE DON'T HAVE ANY not even a McD's! It's code that they are not allowed an again I was in the grocery store already so why go someplace else? It was not some quiet cafe where people want peace and quiet.



And I said exactly what happened. I did not correct myself to look better. I didnt think people would assume I let my kid just sit there screaming for 10 min.




It's sad. I miss the old BG where it was mothers supporting each other and having a place to vent. It you to be if you had nothing nice to say you closed the window an moved on not go around calling people who don't know AT ALL morons and b***hes. Again just sad.

Hannah. 34 kids; Spokane, WA, United States 63782 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carol :):</b>" Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like the Starbucks is inside Safeway (we don't have a Safeway but ... [snip!] ... kids at grocery stores, if you don't want to hear loud kids don't work/go to a grocery store or any kiosk in a grocery store."</blockquote>




This! Seriously! I worked at Starbucks in a Safeway and heard children melt down every day... I would never ever dream of telling a customer to "put a muzzle on that kid". Or I would be saying it every day, and would be fired.



Congrats to all the parents who give in instead of disciplining, and leave their groceries in a cart right before leaving. I always hated walking around the store and putting those groceries back in their spots when I was busy with other things at work.

Hannah. 34 kids; Spokane, WA, United States 63782 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy of a giggler!:</b>" I think the woman was out of the line. My kids can be loud (oldest has autism, sometimes things get to ... [snip!] ... would leave. For those saying just to leave, it's no different then handing over the candy if the kid keeps screaming for it."</blockquote>




Agreed.