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what would you do ? C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12

Okay, so I've been recently talking with this guy online & we are supposed to meet on Sunday.
But, today one of my ex's ( I've wanted to be with him for a long time )..asked me if we could work out a new relationship, we've known each other for 7 years & have always loved one another.



What would you do ?



would you go meet this online guy or try & make it work with your ex ?

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59253 posts
status 16th Nov '12

I think if it's a question that needs to be figured out by thinking.... probably neither is what you really want. KWIM?

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
l;Quoting The Doctor:" I think if it's a question that needs to be figured out by thinking.... probably neither is what you really want. KWIM?"


I know what I want, I just wanted to get some other mama's answers...on which would they do if they were in my situation.

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59253 posts
status 16th Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" I know what I want, I just wanted to get some other mama's answers...on which would they do if they were in my situation."


Hmm.



Well, I really couldn't answer it. If it was my ex and someone new.... I would probably go for someone new. But if it was your ex.... I dunno! Because I don't know the relationship and whatnot, yaknow?

Zeke's Mama Due September 26 (girl); 1 child; Pensacola, Florida 5703 posts
status 16th Nov '12

I always say they are an ex for a reason...

username1 1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
16th Nov '12

id give the new guy a shot and see what he has to offer... just see how you connect with him on that first date and then base it off of that

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
16th Nov '12

Well there is the risk of this online guy not being who you thought he was, but also an ex is an ex for a reason and maybe a new guy would be best. But not all relationships break up for bad reasons so the ex might be a better choice. Pros and cons to both that only you would know since you know the reason for your breakup and you have been talking to this new guy.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
16th Nov '12

Both. f**k it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try?

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Supafly★:" Both. f**k it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try? "


that's true.
.lol

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5691 posts
16th Nov '12

Why not see both? You aren't in a committed relationship so just have fun and date both until you figure out who you really want to be with. It may be neither.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" that's true. .lol"


Yeah go on dates with both. Feel them out and then decide.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15945 posts
16th Nov '12

Why did you guys separate in the first place? I think you should answer this question for yourself before making any decisions.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Why did you guys separate in the first place? I think you should answer this question for yourself before making any decisions. "

I love your avi which reminds me I missed almost the whole episode of VD lastnight because I locked myself out the house,

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15945 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting That Girl.:" I love your avi which reminds me I missed almost the whole episode of VD lastnight because I locked myself out the house,"


Thank you :) ....You can watch it on couchtuner.com ....that is what I do!

Robert and Nicholas' Momm 2 kids; Pennsylvania 903 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Both. f**k it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try? "</blockquote>



So true!