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C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Why did you guys separate in the first place? I think you should answer this question for yourself before making any decisions. "


we separated because I cheated on him with BD, it was such a stupid mistake.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12

99 percent of the time it never works with the ex. So no I would give the new guy a chance.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting That Girl.:" Yeah go on dates with both. Feel them out and then decide."


The issue with that is she has feelings for the ex, and doing that often makes the new guy have little chance at making headway.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" The issue with that is she has feelings for the ex, and doing that often makes the new guy have little chance at making headway."


exactly !

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" exactly !"


Seems to me you already know the answer.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting That Girl.:" Seems to me you already know the answer."


I mean I have feelings for the ex, but something is telling me to go on Sunday just to see what's it like....KWIM ?

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" I mean I have feelings for the ex, but something is telling me to go on Sunday just to see what's it like....KWIM ?"



Well couldn't you not answer the ex yet, You aren't dating yet and just go on the date. Who knows you may have no connection with this online dude at all. Or you could hit it off and not think twice about the ex. Point is, I feel you'd always WHAT IF, if you decide no to go.

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Boobie On Demand:" I always say they are an ex for a reason..."

:!:

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting That Girl.:" Well couldn't you not answer the ex yet, You aren't dating yet and just go on the date. Who knows ... [snip!] ... all. Or you could hit it off and not think twice about the ex. Point is, I feel you'd always WHAT IF, if you decide no to go."


you are right.



I think I am just going to go on the date & see if we do have a real connection.