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What Would You Do? [Ashlyn] Due November 23; Panama City, Florida 32 posts
16th Nov '12

My baby's father walked out on me the day I told him I was pregnant. I was thinking if I should invite him to see the birth of our daughter. Even though he left us I still think he has somewhat of a right to see his daughters birth. I think their are good reasons to come and good reasons for him to not come. What do you think? Would you invite you ex fianc

Faye's Mama 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 4559 posts
16th Nov '12

Yes because its his child too.

Vincent&Me (Laura) 2 kids; Moab, Utah 7847 posts
16th Nov '12

No. Honesty, if he'd wanted to be involved, he should have figured out a way to be. To me it would be too late.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
16th Nov '12

It depends on a lot of things. Does he want to be there? Is he going to be involved with the child? Do you think it would stress you out or make you uncomfortable for him to be there?



ETA: BD did not come to watch my daughter be born. I wouldn't change it, either. He is also not involved at all.

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
16th Nov '12

No. My daughters sperm donor wasn't around for my pregnancy and there was no way in hell he was coming to the birth.

Mommy2ChaseandAden :) 4 kids; Rock Hill, South Carolina 139 posts
16th Nov '12

I would, If he doesn't want to come he wont.

Tippie 3 kids; Salem, Oregon 12579 posts
16th Nov '12

I would invite him to the hospital but I don't think I would want him in the room with me. He lost that privileged when he left.

Vincent&Me (Laura) 2 kids; Moab, Utah 7847 posts
16th Nov '12

Not to mention, you're going to be going through a lot with the labor and delivery. Would you really want him in the room? I think that would cause a huge distraction to me. And for me, I needed to concentrate

Larry! 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13234 posts
16th Nov '12

If he eventually comes around during the pregnancy and offers support, then yes I would. If he's totally out of the picture by the time you deliver then no.

Christina143 Due December 28; 3 kids; Fruitland, Idaho 510 posts
16th Nov '12

No, my sperm donor wasn't here for the pregnancy at all.. he did what ur ex did to you. :(

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
16th Nov '12

if he hastn been involved then no, i would let him know that you had her, and that he wcould come to the hospital to meet his daughter if he would like to. but to the labor, no.

*~Stella's Momma~* 1 child; Missouri 1654 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Christina143:</b>" No, my sperm donor wasn't here for the pregnancy at all.. he did what ur ex did to you. :("</blockquote>



Same with me. If he tried to come, by that time it would have been too late.



DD is 11 weeks and he's never seen her. Fine by me!

Christina143 Due December 28; 3 kids; Fruitland, Idaho 510 posts
16th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *~Stella's Momma~*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Christina143:</b>" No, my sperm donor wasn't here for the pregnancy ... [snip!] ... with me. If he tried to come, by that time it would have been too late. DD is 11 weeks and he's never seen her. Fine by me!"</blockquote>




:( It's sad, ive been talking with the sperm donors neice and she tells me he wants to play daddy when baby gets here I'm like umm no... We can handle this in court :/