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Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes, you're a bitch -- Votes: 4
    • No, completely understandable -- Votes: 58
Am I being a b***h? user banned
16th Nov '12

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★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
16th Nov '12

Not at all. He doesn't need to drink at all. :x

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
16th Nov '12

Nope, not at all.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11952 posts
16th Nov '12

I understand but why go to a bar then?

user banned California 36390 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I understand but why go to a bar then?"



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KristynaV 1 child; POWELL, Tennessee 94 posts
16th Nov '12

No way people who drink are unpredictable and if he gets mean to begin with who knows what he could do, and not even know that he is doing it angry drunks are never good.

★ Irishewwie 1 child; Tokeland, Washington 67058 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" He drank a few beers a few weeks ago but we were around all his friends until he sobered up. (I made them stay just in case.)"


That's a good idea. But honestly I wouldn't let him drink at all. You know I'm saying this with all sincerity. He needs to stay away from alcohol.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I understand but why go to a bar then?"



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user banned California 36390 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I understand but why go to a bar then?"


I already had plans to go without him because he had to work. It's like a bar/Mexican restaurant.

user banned California 36390 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting ★ Irishewwie
mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
16th Nov '12

ummm No you are not!!! And I hope the 2 who voted yes were just being ass's!!!..side note..I want mexican food :(

zamaraz TTC since Jul 2009; Japan 3 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" Be honest and DO NOT QUOTE PLEASE! DH and I might be going to the bar together tomorrow night and he ... [snip!] ... sometimes even violent. Am I being a b***h? I feel like I'm being controlling but I'm really scared of him when he's drunk. :/ "


you're not being mean and controlling.. you're being safe...



my question to you is.. if you don't want him to drink.. why are you going to a bar?
so you can drink?



lead by example. if he's a mean drunk, then stop drinking alongside him.. if he sees you drinking and you're banning him from it it'll just make him resent you..



why not go to a nice restaurant & enjoy a date?



bars = drinking + drunks
there's no escaping that logic lol.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
16th Nov '12

No, you're not being a b***h. He needs to not drink at all. He's abusive when he drinks, and you should be more important than stupid beer.

user banned California 36390 posts
16th Nov '12
Quoting zamaraz:" you're not being mean and controlling.. you're being safe... my question to you is.. if you don't ... [snip!] ... you.. why not go to a nice restaurant & enjoy a date? bars = drinking + drunks there's no escaping that logic lol."


Our group of friends meets at this place that's a bar/Mexican restaurant once a month. So we'd be going to that. I don't drink either.