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pointless post really... E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
17th Nov '12

I just wanted to tell someone that for the first time in a year I finally managed to reach the big 'O' with SO last night. Maybe there is hope for our sex life after all? FYI - he normally finishes a lot quicker than I do and i've never said anything because I was too polite. But yeah, very happy today!

coffee-holic 4 kids; Maryland 1586 posts
17th Nov '12

Congrats! Lol

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
17th Nov '12

Woohoo!!! Congrats :)

LinzieBoBinzie Due June 26; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Western, NY, United States 4551 posts
status 17th Nov '12

Woo! Tell him to keep up the good work! Kidding lol

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Ellie Shikari:" I just wanted to tell someone that for the first time in a year I finally managed to reach the big 'O' ... [snip!] ... he normally finishes a lot quicker than I do and i've never said anything because I was too polite. But yeah, very happy today!"

That's great, but never DON'T say anything. Sex is for both of you not just him.

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
17th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" That's great, but never DON'T say anything. Sex is for both of you not just him."</blockquote>




Thankd ladies. Lol. And I know, but at the start I was so smitten I didn't want to ruin things by offending him so I left it. And now I feel it is too late. But hey, hopefully he will keep this up, haha.

BekaMommyofTwoBoys 2 kids; Tulsa, Oklahoma 499 posts
17th Nov '12

It took me 2yrs for my first O...but i was too up tight and didnt know what was happening...lol never was DHs fault. Keeo doing what works!

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Ellie Shikari:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" That's great, but never DON'T say anything. ... [snip!] ... to ruin things by offending him so I left it. And now I feel it is too late. But hey, hopefully he will keep this up, haha."


Lol he doesn't notice that you don't ever orgasm?

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Ellie Shikari:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" That's great, but never DON'T say anything. ... [snip!] ... to ruin things by offending him so I left it. And now I feel it is too late. But hey, hopefully he will keep this up, haha."


No it is never to late. And to be honest any guy who gets offended isn't worth being with.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Lol he doesn't notice that you don't ever orgasm?"


Not every woman has strong enough contractions during orgasm to tell. And if using a rubber that can make it harder to notice.

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
17th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Not every woman has strong enough contractions during orgasm to tell. And if using a rubber that can make it harder to notice."</blockquote>



He's only been with one person before me so maybe he doesn't know. Idk lol

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Not every woman has strong enough contractions during orgasm to tell. And if using a rubber that can make it harder to notice."


Well even so guys I've been with have always wanted to make sure I'm satisfied before they finish lol
My SO refuses to come before I have even if that means he keeps stopping so he doesn't cum. Sometimes I don't like it because I'd rather he just fucking finish lol

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
17th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" Well even so guys I've been with have always wanted to make sure I'm satisfied before they finish lol ... [snip!] ... even if that means he keeps stopping so he doesn't cum. Sometimes I don't like it because I'd rather he just fucking finish lol"</blockquote>



Yeah my SO stops and will grind for a min to catch me up. We almost always get off together. If one of us goes it usually sets the other off.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Ellie Shikari:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Not every woman has strong enough contractions ... [snip!] ... can make it harder to notice."</blockquote> He's only been with one person before me so maybe he doesn't know. Idk lol"

He might no lol. Usually boys and girls are a tad clueless if they aren't taught :). And like you don't have to be rude, just sort of guide him a bit more. "I really like it when you do that" or " could you slow down some?" or if he is close squeeze your vagina to keep him from cumming and flip him on his back for a slow grind. But regards congrats :). Always nice to have the first orgasm with another person

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
17th Nov '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Well even so guys I've been with have always wanted to make sure I'm satisfied before they finish lol ... [snip!] ... even if that means he keeps stopping so he doesn't cum. Sometimes I don't like it because I'd rather he just fucking finish lol" Right lol? Shit gets sore after awhile.