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Tasha & Nika Due December 22 (boy); 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 16027 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Just Emily :):" Im at a stand still with dh. Idk how else to get it across that I'm unhappy. Last night after a whole ... [snip!] ... a year ago but now he's zero to sixty makes it a race and calls it quits when he's done.... Any ideas of how to approach this?"


I'm sorry..



It seems like he's being selfish in this, I think in order for you to be happy with your sex life, he needs to want to please you.. right now he's being lazy about it.



I don't like his 'what do you want me to do about it?' response, because frankly, there are ways to finish a woman off without intercourse being involved. It's just lack of incentive on his part.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" My DH is the same way and it drives ... [snip!] ... I was actually talking to him over text not too long ago and he told me a few things. Idk if it will help but I can hope"


Maybe it will get better. I know first hand how bad it sucks. It totally killed my self esteem for a while because most of the time I'll though it was just my fault and he didn't want me or something. :(

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8633 posts
status 18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" Maybe it will get better. I know first hand how bad it sucks. It totally killed my self esteem for a ... [snip!] ... my self esteem for a while because most of the time I'll though it was just my fault and he didn't want me or something. :("</blockquote>




Yupp half the time I think it's my fault cause I'm not as pretty as I was

Gabrielle Hamblin Due June 26 (girl); 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Buffalo, Texas 393 posts
18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" Maybe it will get better. I know first ... [snip!] ... want me or something. :("</blockquote> Yupp half the time I think it's my fault cause I'm not as pretty as I was"</blockquote>




To both you ladied. If a man loves you he should show it. I bet ur still beautiful and sexy. It just goes to show some men are a*****es!!!!!

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Gabrielle Hamblin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla ... [snip!] ... If a man loves you he should show it. I bet ur still beautiful and sexy. It just goes to show some men are a*****es!!!!!"


Thank you sweet girl. :)

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8633 posts
status 18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gabrielle Hamblin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla ... [snip!] ... If a man loves you he should show it. I bet ur still beautiful and sexy. It just goes to show some men are a*****es!!!!!"</blockquote>




Thanks Hun. :)

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8633 posts
status 18th Nov '12

Soooo I kinda was a b***h to dh but I guess I got through. My knees are till shaking. :) let's see how long this lasts.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Just Emily :):" Soooo I kinda was a b***h to dh but I guess I got through. My knees are till shaking. :) let's see how long this lasts."


Yay! See, sometimes being a b***h will get you somewhere! :P

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8633 posts
status 19th Nov '12
Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" Yay! See, sometimes being a b***h will get you somewhere! :P"


yeah I sent him a text that said Im not happy. Im too young to go the rest of my life not being happy. I still had to start things but Ill take it.

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Just Emily :):" yeah I sent him a text that said Im not happy. Im too young to go the rest of my life not being happy. I still had to start things but Ill take it."


Yeah, at least there was some sort of change, that's a good start! DH actually initiated sex last night and it just shocked me. :lol:

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8633 posts
status 19th Nov '12
Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" Yeah, at least there was some sort of change, that's a good start! DH actually initiated sex last night and it just shocked me. :lol:"


*highfive* Thats awesome