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*TaraT&3peas* Due March 31; 2 kids; Ohio 359 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting MX23:" well actually my parents werent around much cause they were always busy working. they started a business ... [snip!] ... whatever i ask for. they are even gone this week. i was gonna spend thanksgiving at my gfs house but i dont think i will now."


yeah I wouldnt spend thanksgiving with someone who you deep down do not want to be with, clearly.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting veggie86:" You're 17 years old, you shouldn't be getting drunk in the first place. You seem to make one mistake after another. You really need to start growing up, you have a big responsibility on the way."


lots of people my age drink. it should be legal at 18 at least anyways.



besides me drinking doesnt have much to do with this and i dont need a lecture on not drinking..

veggie86 TTC since Mar 2014; Somewhere, CA, United States 82 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting MX23:" lots of people my age drink. it should be legal at 18 at least anyways. besides me drinking doesnt have much to do with this and i dont need a lecture on not drinking.."

Doesn't mean they should. Obviously most kids don't posses the maturity to handle drinking at that age. My point is you're trying to excuse your behavior away to being drunk. You made the decision to drink, you made the decision (actually, it was a reoccurring thing) to have sex, pregnancy is a possible outcome. You knew that, you took the risk. Now it's time to take responsibility. You don't have to be with her to help with the baby, but as many girls here have already said, don't act impulsively. Your first instinct is "I don't want this, I can't handle it, get it away from me." As you grow up, you'll realize that that behavior is childish and impulsive. You really need to sit down and talk with your parents. Or maybe a counselor at school. You need to get an adult involved because both of you obviously don't have the skills to deal with such a life changing experience. Best of luck.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting *Expecting #3*:" Life really does not suck with kids, I mean I see that you are 17 and all you can think about right now ... [snip!] ... and want to be in ur childs life and someday it may be too late and ur child will hold hate for u for not being around!!! "


well some of that sounds cool and fun
like it would be fun if it was a boy to teach him to play sports and put him on a 50cc bike and hit the track for the day but its the other stuff that would drive me crazy especially in the beginning.



and i do still love her and i would love to be with her but i wish we could just agree on what to do and not fight all the time about it

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22957 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" lots of people my age drink. it should be legal at 18 at least anyways. besides me drinking doesnt have much to do with this and i dont need a lecture on not drinking.."</blockquote>




The point is its not legal.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting veggie86:" Doesn't mean they should. Obviously most kids don't posses the maturity to handle drinking at that age. ... [snip!] ... adult involved because both of you obviously don't have the skills to deal with such a life changing experience. Best of luck."


well my parents are gone for a while now so cant even talk to them. i think im just gonna go talk to her and her parents tonight. see what they say and take it from there. i hate admitting this but im so nervous. i talked to my friends and they all just say to dump her now

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22957 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" well my parents are gone for a while now so cant even talk to them. i think im just gonna go talk to ... [snip!] ... and take it from there. i hate admitting this but im so nervous. i talked to my friends and they all just say to dump her now"</blockquote>




That is a dick move

LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting MX23:" well my parents are gone for a while now so cant even talk to them. i think im just gonna go talk to ... [snip!] ... and take it from there. i hate admitting this but im so nervous. i talked to my friends and they all just say to dump her now"


Yes, you should definitely be asking advice from other immature, 17 year old boys.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22957 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" Yes, you should definitely be asking advice from other immature, 17 year old boys. "</blockquote>




Right?

*TaraT&3peas* Due March 31; 2 kids; Ohio 359 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting MX23:" well some of that sounds cool and fun like it would be fun if it was a boy to teach him to play sports ... [snip!] ... still love her and i would love to be with her but i wish we could just agree on what to do and not fight all the time about it"


How far along is she right now????

Noahs Mommy ❤ 16 kids; Arizona 628 posts
19th Nov '12

Hahahahaha.
Is this a joke?



you're a douche, there is no way u can make ur "chick"
get rid of it. Sorry bro, u should of pulled out or double wrapped.
If i was in ur girlfriends position i would choose the baby over you, not give a-fuck.
And make u pay till ur daughter/son is 18.



And being pregnant doesnt always fuck up a girls body, ignorant fuck.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22957 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bianca ♔:</b>" Hahahahaha. Is this a joke? you're a douche, there is no way u can make ur "chick" get rid of it. Sorry ... [snip!] ... give a-fuck. And make u pay till ur daughter/son is 18. And being pregnant doesnt always fuck up a girls body, ignorant fuck."</blockquote>




He did pull out and never double wrap.

Stephy B Due May 10 (girl); 64 kids; Tennessee 226 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting MX23:" well i would hope they talk to her and make her make the right decision i dont care if she aborts or ... [snip!] ... to she isnt being bitchy like she was last night so ill talk to her now cuz i want to make a decision before its to late"


Your friends are all saying dump her?



At 17, you should for sure do everything your friends say...cause ya know, they know everything about being adults.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bianca ♔:</b>" Hahahahaha. Is this a joke? you're a douche, there is no way u can make ur "chick" get rid of it. Sorry ... [snip!] ... give a-fuck. And make u pay till ur daughter/son is 18. And being pregnant doesnt always fuck up a girls body, ignorant fuck."</blockquote>



Um....pulling out and double wrapping are both monumentally stupid "protective" measures

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Bianca ♔:</b>" Hahahahaha. Is this a joke? you're a douche, ... [snip!] ... ignorant fuck."</blockquote> Um....pulling out and double wrapping are both monumentally stupid "protective" measures"

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