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i ♥ nora 1 child; New Jersey 1622 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"

LOL I think you're the one with the ADHD.

¡VinHaute! Memphis, Tennessee 44457 posts
status 18th Nov '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"


That is not what ADHD means. Shephards of Judea.. smh

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22487 posts
18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" I agree - my sons dad ran out on us, he hasn't seen my son since he was 3 months old and guess what? ... [snip!] ... going to be a part of your life whether you like it or not, may as well not deny your child a relationship with their father. "</blockquote>




Yeah my DD's father has never seen her but pays child support every month

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 10952 posts
status 18th Nov '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" Wish I could say different about you!"


Pretty sure I'm not the one acting like a child.

¡VinHaute! Memphis, Tennessee 44457 posts
status 18th Nov '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" LOL I think you're the one with the ADHD."


:?

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" Good job on all the attention this guy got- OVER WHAT??"


Over asking for advice on what to do in a situation? Holy hell you're stupid. I'm surprised someone was willing to spawn with you and make 10 kids.

{tamz} Due September 2; 1 child; Maryland 2533 posts
status 18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"</blockquote>



ADHD does not mean attention seeking nor does it mean a person is lying.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22487 posts
18th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy sign over his rights?"</blockquote>




Nope. They want to make sure the child is financially taken care of

** A.J's Mommy** 1 child; New Paltz, New York 803 posts
18th Nov '12

I found out I was pregnant at 17. My boyfriend did NOT want a child and I was not going to terminate. I gave him the choice to either stay or go but it was ultimately my decision. He became a MAN and is a wonderful father to our now 3 year old little boy. You chose to sleep with her and helped create this child. Clearly you don't love her if you are being such an ass about this and could walk away that easily. What a POS...

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
18th Nov '12

In a perfect world, a couple in a relationship would be able to come together and agree what was best for BOTH of them, but this world isn't perfect,

i ♥ nora 1 child; New Jersey 1622 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Clk:" I do wonder why everyone is so mad at a man for not wanting to be a father, most here are supportive in this situation if it was a woman who made the post."

It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he will leave if she has the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60938 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"

Woah.



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Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11927 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy sign over his rights?"

In most states no it's not that easy. Have to have someone else there to adopt first aka mom has to get married.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he ... [snip!] ... the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible."


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He wouldn't be getting this kind of flak if he was just asking for advice on what he should do since he wants to abort but the girl doesn't. The way he worded it is what is making everyone think he's a douchebag.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
18th Nov '12

wow really harsh here



first we BOTH had sex



not JUST ME so it took BOTH of us
nether of us like condoms so i usually pull out and it worked for a while
sometimes while drunk i might not pull out in time



we werent planning this so i dont see why all of a sudden SHE wants it



its not fair and it pisses me off. if she is gonna be like that over this i dont think i wanna be with her.