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¡VinHaute! Memphis, Tennessee 46028 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" LOL I think you're the one with the ADHD."


:?

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" Good job on all the attention this guy got- OVER WHAT??"


Over asking for advice on what to do in a situation? Holy hell you're stupid. I'm surprised someone was willing to spawn with you and make 10 kids.

{tamz} Due April 19; 2 kids; Maryland 2549 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"</blockquote>



ADHD does not mean attention seeking nor does it mean a person is lying.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy sign over his rights?"</blockquote>




Nope. They want to make sure the child is financially taken care of

**Mommy to A.J. & Amber** 2 kids; New Paltz, New York 868 posts
Nov 18th '12

I found out I was pregnant at 17. My boyfriend did NOT want a child and I was not going to terminate. I gave him the choice to either stay or go but it was ultimately my decision. He became a MAN and is a wonderful father to our now 3 year old little boy. You chose to sleep with her and helped create this child. Clearly you don't love her if you are being such an ass about this and could walk away that easily. What a POS...

☆OGTattedmama07☆ Due March 6; 2 kids; Ghetto, Ca, United States 36667 posts
Nov 18th '12

In a perfect world, a couple in a relationship would be able to come together and agree what was best for BOTH of them, but this world isn't perfect,

No more b***hes No, NJ, United States 1659 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Clk:" I do wonder why everyone is so mad at a man for not wanting to be a father, most here are supportive in this situation if it was a woman who made the post."

It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he will leave if she has the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible.

homes cool Due July 25; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 63165 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Barnett Babies:" LOOK IT UP b***h- why he is acting out and probably lying about the whole post....ATTENTION we call it- YOU, want some??? LOL@ your STUPIDITY!"

Woah.



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Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 12419 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy sign over his rights?"

In most states no it's not that easy. Have to have someone else there to adopt first aka mom has to get married.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he ... [snip!] ... the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible."


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He wouldn't be getting this kind of flak if he was just asking for advice on what he should do since he wants to abort but the girl doesn't. The way he worded it is what is making everyone think he's a douchebag.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Nov 18th '12

wow really harsh here



first we BOTH had sex



not JUST ME so it took BOTH of us
nether of us like condoms so i usually pull out and it worked for a while
sometimes while drunk i might not pull out in time



we werent planning this so i dont see why all of a sudden SHE wants it



its not fair and it pisses me off. if she is gonna be like that over this i dont think i wanna be with her.

No more b***hes No, NJ, United States 1659 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy ... [snip!] ... baby-daddy sign over his rights?"</blockquote> Nope. They want to make sure the child is financially taken care of"


What is BD is evading child support anyway? There would still only be one income-from the single mother. (I'm not arguing your point at all, I want to know for just-in-case purposes. :) )

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Clk:" I do wonder why everyone is so mad at a man for not wanting to be a father, most here are supportive in this situation if it was a woman who made the post."


it does seem like a lot of people are mad at him. maybe because they would feel angry if they were the girl in his life. but... i'm not mad at him. i just hope he isn't seriously thinking that he is going to "try to convince her to get rid of it" and then they will stay together.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" wow really harsh here first we BOTH had sex not JUST ME so it took BOTH of us nether of us like condoms ... [snip!] ... SHE wants it its not fair and it pisses me off. if she is gonna be like that over this i dont think i wanna be with her. "</blockquote>




It is obvious she wants it. You two shouldn't be together. She won't take your feelings into consideration and you won't take hers.

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 12419 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he ... [snip!] ... the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible."

Women do the exact same thing though without such anger against her on here. It's just sad yet funny to me the double standard. Not necessarily saying specifically you, but in general.