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Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" On this baby gaga site click on the pregnancy tab and the first thing should be weeks 1-40...you can ... [snip!] ... the baby looks like and what it's doing every week, fun little facts too! And hopefully she'll send you a pic of the sonogram."

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LolaMcKitten Due May 30 (girl); 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Of course, just don't have a tempor tantrum just because you don't like what they have to say or ... [snip!] ... and your opinions, so please respect that I'm trying to be here and do the right thing. Something along those lines..lol "


Extremely well said, great advice here.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
29th Nov '12

That really sucks that they won't let you go! I had 3 u/s when I first got a positive pregnancy test, cause they kept not seeing anything and they weren't sure how far along I was or if I was pregnant (they were thinking miscarriage). Well my 3rd ultrasound we finally saw something and they pointed out the heartbeat. Tthey said I was 7weeks. When my bf saw that and we were told 7weeks, a month and a half pregnant, it totally changed his complete view on abortion and his whole thought process on a fetus and baby.



He realized that is was a living thing. Had a heartbeat and that there's a living being inside of me. It was really amazing. When I first saw it, it was hard to believe. I started tearing up.



I think that's something you should be there for. I would have been sad if my bf hadn't been there. If I were her parents, I would want you there in hopes it would change your perspective on life and realize that there's a living being in there.



Maybe your gf could tell her parents she really wants you there to see the baby and see that it has a heartbeat and that it lives. Maybe she can tell them that its something that you should really be there for and see so that you know what's going on and so that you can see that there's a living life in her. Maybe she can say that it might help you understand and help you change your perspective. Kwim?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Aww see! :) I don't think they should keep you away from the sono...but it's okay, just talk to them saturday. I hope everything works out for you!! Crossing my fingers!"


thanks! im hoping it goes well. so nervous about it.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" On this baby gaga site click on the pregnancy tab and the first thing should be weeks 1-40...you can ... [snip!] ... the baby looks like and what it's doing every week, fun little facts too! And hopefully she'll send you a pic of the sonogram."


hey i never saw that. pretty cool. looks like an alien tho. lol. still cool to see it like that.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
29th Nov '12
Quoting Tay L:" That really sucks that they won't let you go! I had 3 u/s when I first got a positive pregnancy test, ... [snip!] ... there's a living life in her. Maybe she can say that it might help you understand and help you change your perspective. Kwim?"


yeah she already went so i missed the 1st one :cry:



she did talk to them and said she wanted to be with me so that might be why they will meet me on saturday.



kinds seems like it would be really neat to see it tho. hopefully they do another one and i can go to that one.

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 867 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" yeah she already went so i missed the 1st one :cry: she did talk to them and said she wanted to be ... [snip!] ... on saturday. kinds seems like it would be really neat to see it tho. hopefully they do another one and i can go to that one."</blockquote>




My Fiance missed my first Ultrasound, but he was working. Don't worry, she should have at least another 2 before the baby is born.
One at 12 weeks and another at 20 weeks for sure.
Its great that her parents agreed to meet you.
Just remember to listen and be really well mannered.
I'm happy for you :) hope it goes well.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
29th Nov '12

Hopefully they'll let you go to the next one. Which will be the anatomy scan/gender scan. That won't be till 20weeks though. I had mine at 22weeks.



That will most likely be her next and last. Unless they think its medically necessary to have another. Or if she's measuring ahead or behind. I'm getting another one cause I'm measuring ahead and they want to check and see how big the baby is.



Most people get 2, maybe 3 ultrasounds. Hopefully you will be able to go to the next one(s).

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tay L:</b>" Hopefully they'll let you go to the next one. Which will be the anatomy scan/gender scan. That won't ... [snip!] ... and see how big the baby is. Most people get 2, maybe 3 ultrasounds. Hopefully you will be able to go to the next one(s)."</blockquote>



Or she could have a great doctor like me and get one every visit.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" yeah she already went so i missed the 1st one :cry: ... [snip!] ... her parents agreed to meet you. Just remember to listen and be really well mannered. I'm happy for you :) hope it goes well."</blockquote>




Not typically one at 12 weeks. Most people only get two ultrasounds

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tay L:</b>" Hopefully they'll let you go to the next one. Which ... [snip!] ... will be able to go to the next one(s)."</blockquote> Or she could have a great doctor like me and get one every visit."</blockquote>



I had one every visit with both but I was high risk for both

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... great doctor like me and get one every visit."</blockquote> I had one every visit with both but I was high risk for both"</blockquote>



I'm not, my doc just likes to keep an eye on things :D

MX23 Japan 674 posts
29th Nov '12

that sucks they dont always do that all the time. how come? if i ask i wonder if they would do it?

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" that sucks they dont always do that all the time. how come? if i ask i wonder if they would do it?"</blockquote>



Because it costs money.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
29th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, ... [snip!] ... visit with both but I was high risk for both"</blockquote> I'm not, my doc just likes to keep an eye on things :D"</blockquote>




That's great. I know everyone at my doctors gets one every visit though



It made me feel better to get one every visit