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Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 867 posts
Dec 12th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"</blockquote>




That's really sad! I just want to give you a hug.
After how hard you have tried and how far you have come, you don't deserve this a*****e beating up on you and making your life miserable.



Definitely tell your parents, you can get a restraining order on him so then you don't have to worry about him coming near you or he will go to jail.
Also let your girlfriends parents know just the kind of psycho he is!



I hope he gets what is coming to him, because it is just so wrong what he has done to you.
Make sure you go to the doctors and get checked up in case you have internal bleeding or another concussion :(
You could also use the medical certificate in any legal problems, if there happen to be any.
It will help you get a restraining order put in place for sure.



How are you feeling now?
Hope you're okay.

Dr.P3pp3r 3 kids; Germany 2057 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"



I know its already been posted. But please involve your parents in this matter. He needs to be reported he cant go around beating people up and getting by with it. Else it will happen again.

Dr.P3pp3r 3 kids; Germany 2057 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting MX23:" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my gf and he better not try to hurt her. i may have deserved ... [snip!] ... bad about lieing to them and i was afraid of what he said about the baby. im just afraid he might come after me again if i tell"


And if you have cuts,bruises, swelling.... take pictures you need to document it.
Was there no one left outside the school as this was going on?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 13th '12

i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first punched me at my gfs house but this time was bad and i never hit anyone or did anything to him. there is no video outside the school and it was later so no one was even around and it all happend so fast then he just took off.



my parents said i need to not lie to them cuz they are there to help me. ive been lieing to much to them lately. they said its hard for them to trust me and i need to start telling the truth. i told them everything and they called the cops. i had to tell them everything to and show them the txts. they took pictures of me and said i shouldnt go out alone until they get him. they said they could arrest him for at least 4 different things. i foget what they were tho. i hope i didnt make things worse. they said i might have to go to court and tell the judge everything to. not sure i wanna do that especially with him listening to it all.



cant he just deny it all tho? what if he gets off. im really worried he might come after me again. my mom is staying home with me today and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my ... [snip!] ... happen to be any. It will help you get a restraining order put in place for sure. How are you feeling now? Hope you're okay."


i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i got hit at my gfs house that made it worse and then the fight really made it bad. he said its easy to get another one after just getting one.



he said i was ok other than that and had to rest and not do anything to bang my head at all. he said my nose wasnt broken and eyes were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "


OMFG! f**k that, turn that p***e o* s**t in. He can't get your baby taken away from you, tell your parents. They SHOULD have camera's at the school, get a restraining order so that if he contacts you, threatens you or tries to hurt you he will be locked up. And he will keep getting locked up until he gives up. No, you don't need to deal with that shit. If you keep letting him get away with it, he WILL keep doing it. Please keep posted!

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting MX23:" i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i ... [snip!] ... were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion."


I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol Seriously though, be careful! If I were you I would keep pepper spray on you just in case you need to use it to get away and call the cops. I'm glad your dad is getting camera's, def a good idea. Your parents should talk to her parents, because like the other girl said...he probably is beating up on her. And honestly, thats probably why she's such a b***h. I was a b***h when I was in that kind of relationship. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this, your a good kid and don't deserve any of it! Keep your head up, I'm sure you will be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you! :)

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 13th '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol ... [snip!] ... be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you! :)"


thank you! the cops said they are gonna go and talk to my gfs sister to. my gf is so upset to and i feel bad. i told her not to be cuz its my fault all this happened. if i didnt argue with her sister none of this would of happened.



im glad hes getting cameras for her. my mother left for a while to get lunch for us and i was paranoide. ive never been like that. i feel like such a wimp.



plus im stressed out cuz i was really trying to do better in school and now i have to take more days off. im not even sure if im gonna pass now. so depresing.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "


:( OP you need to report this....Please listen to us. What advice have we given you that hasn't worked out?!?

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting MX23:" i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first ... [snip!] ... and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways."

Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't have cameras up outside they should always be on whether school is in session or not.....I hope your ok, make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't ... [snip!] ... make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?"


the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year.



yeah i feel like shit. not sure what is gonna happen with him and the cops so im scared about that. falling more behind in school now. i wish i could just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total f**k up



i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting MX23:" the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year. yeah i feel like shit. not sure what ... [snip!] ... just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total f**k up i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday"

Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work"


thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting MX23:" thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. ... [snip!] ... about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance."


I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 14th '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??"


she is really stressed out and i feel bad cuz its all my fault. i told her not to worry about it or me but she wont listen. if i didnt start with her sister none of this would have happened. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i feel so bad.