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MX23 Japan 674 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i never thought of that. i dont want him near my ... [snip!] ... happen to be any. It will help you get a restraining order put in place for sure. How are you feeling now? Hope you're okay."


i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i got hit at my gfs house that made it worse and then the fight really made it bad. he said its easy to get another one after just getting one.



he said i was ok other than that and had to rest and not do anything to bang my head at all. he said my nose wasnt broken and eyes were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "


OMFG! f**k that, turn that p***e o* s**t in. He can't get your baby taken away from you, tell your parents. They SHOULD have camera's at the school, get a restraining order so that if he contacts you, threatens you or tries to hurt you he will be locked up. And he will keep getting locked up until he gives up. No, you don't need to deal with that shit. If you keep letting him get away with it, he WILL keep doing it. Please keep posted!

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" i did go the dr. he said that even tho i felt better the concussion prolly was not better and when i ... [snip!] ... were ok and that my ribs could take over a month to heal. he said i really need to just rest and cant get antoher concussion."


I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol Seriously though, be careful! If I were you I would keep pepper spray on you just in case you need to use it to get away and call the cops. I'm glad your dad is getting camera's, def a good idea. Your parents should talk to her parents, because like the other girl said...he probably is beating up on her. And honestly, thats probably why she's such a b***h. I was a b***h when I was in that kind of relationship. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this, your a good kid and don't deserve any of it! Keep your head up, I'm sure you will be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you! :)

♥MamaToS&O♥ 2 kids; ., IL, United States 12246 posts
13th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first ... [snip!] ... and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways."</blockquote>



Im glad you told and glad that the police have gotten involved. He can try to deny it but you have the threatening texts as well as the bruises. So no matter what he says he fucked himself.
If you have to testify in court then do it. Sometimes they will take him out of the room sometimes they wont. But it shouldnt matter. Just speak the truth.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
13th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I wish I could give you a hug and punch that asswipe in the face after I punched him in the junk...lol ... [snip!] ... be just fine, but like I said just be careful. And def keep posted please so we know you're okay! My thoughts are with you! :)"


thank you! the cops said they are gonna go and talk to my gfs sister to. my gf is so upset to and i feel bad. i told her not to be cuz its my fault all this happened. if i didnt argue with her sister none of this would of happened.



im glad hes getting cameras for her. my mother left for a while to get lunch for us and i was paranoide. ive never been like that. i feel like such a wimp.



plus im stressed out cuz i was really trying to do better in school and now i have to take more days off. im not even sure if im gonna pass now. so depresing.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" what a mistake. i told him i would meet him when i got out of school but had my last day of detention ... [snip!] ... tho. i had to lie to my parents about it cuz i kno they would call the cops or whatever and i just want it to be over now. "


:( OP you need to report this....Please listen to us. What advice have we given you that hasn't worked out?!?

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" i told my parents this morning cuz i dont want him to go after my gf. maybe i deserved it when he first ... [snip!] ... and dad said hes gonna have the security company come and install cameras outside the house cuz hes been wanting them anyways."

Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't have cameras up outside they should always be on whether school is in session or not.....I hope your ok, make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well you do have proof. with the text messages and what i dont understand is why your school doesn't ... [snip!] ... make sure to get a restraining order on him...It sounds like your really overwhelmed now. when do you see your counselor again?"


the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year.



yeah i feel like shit. not sure what is gonna happen with him and the cops so im scared about that. falling more behind in school now. i wish i could just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total f**k up



i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" the cops said the school was getting cameras next school year. yeah i feel like shit. not sure what ... [snip!] ... just go back and change alot of things. i feel like a total f**k up i had to cancel seeing him this week so go next thursday"

Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work

MX23 Japan 674 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well good luck and try to focus on your studies as much as possible. Are your teachers aware of what is going on? Maybe they can give you extentions on your school work"


thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance.

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" thanks. my mother is at the school now talking to my guidance conselor and principal about everything. ... [snip!] ... about everything. i may not have been the best student at school but i do wanna try now. i hope they give me a 2nd chance."


I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??

MX23 Japan 674 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" I hope so too. Maybe if you dont finish all your classes summer school would be an option to make up your credits before college....How is your GF handling all of this??"


she is really stressed out and i feel bad cuz its all my fault. i told her not to worry about it or me but she wont listen. if i didnt start with her sister none of this would have happened. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i feel so bad.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" thank you! the cops said they are gonna go and talk to my gfs sister to. my gf is so upset to and i ... [snip!] ... trying to do better in school and now i have to take more days off. im not even sure if im gonna pass now. so depresing. "


No this is not your fault! You did nothing wrong, who gives a shit if you yelled back at her...people get what they give. And don't feel like a whimp either! I'm sure if it came down to you protecting you and your family, you could handle it but there is no need. You did it for your girl and your baby, don't feel ashamed. And for school work, will your mom pick up classwork & homework?

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
14th Dec '12

Quoting MX23:" she is really stressed out and i feel bad cuz its all my fault. i told her not to worry about it or ... [snip!] ... if i didnt start with her sister none of this would have happened. i ruined her relationship with her sister. i feel so bad."e



Well maybe things with your GF and her sis were rocky before all of this. I have 4 sisters and trust me you are NOT the one who ruined the relationship between them. Girls hold grudges and there probably was tension before what happen with you and your GF's Sis

MX23 Japan 674 posts
14th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" No this is not your fault! You did nothing wrong, who gives a shit if you yelled back at her...people ... [snip!] ... did it for your girl and your baby, don't feel ashamed. And for school work, will your mom pick up classwork & homework?"


my gf said the same thing pretty much but i just feel like if i could have done things different. i guess its done and i cant do anything about it. seems like i screw up everything i do.



1 good thing about today is mom got me a good deal with school. all the work i havent done the last 3 weeks i can get full credit for it if i get it done by next monday. she brought home a ton of stuff that i have to do and my gf is gonna get anything i miss next week. i also cant miss any classes without a note so no more skipping. im still sore tho and having a hard time concentrating so im gonna try to start it all on monday.