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MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 19th '12
Quoting **mummyX2.5**:" I reaf this whole post about a week ago and ive been following it... atm im LOL'd at the ppl commenting ... [snip!] ... Sounds like a low life!! Anywho good luck with everything i will still be watching for updates on how everything is going!"


thanks!



im doing ok. still not feeling well tho. this concussion really sucks. i cant concentrate on any school work and even just remembering things. the doctor said it could be a while b4 i start to get better.



my dad been talking to a bunch of people and i dont know everything that is going on but i guess i have to go to court. he is saying that i started the fight with him and he was protecting himself. thats such bs. he is so much taller and bigger than me. why would i start with him? plus he kept kicking me when i was on the ground so he could have stopped and left. im still afraid hes gonna come after me for telling the cops.



at least things with my gf are really good. shes coming over everyday after school.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
Dec 20th '12

Its good that things are going well for you and your gf! Also good that your dad is trying to help and get things figured out with that guy. I really hope the truth comes out! Especially if you have to go to court! Also is you do go to court, I hope for his sake that he doesnt lie and tells the truth! Other wise when the truth does get out, not only will he be in trouble for beating you up, but he'll be in tons more trouble for lying in court under oath! (If you go to court, do NOT lie! you are under oath. A lawyer will tell you all about that though and what can happen if someone lies.)



I really hope that things work out and he gets what he deserves for what he did to you! Also hope you get well soon!



What did your gf's family do or say when they found out about it? Hope that he wasnt ever hurting your gf's sister!
Please keep updating about what happens. Really hope everything works out for you. And your gf! :)

Kelly-Ann Louise 1 child; 1 angel baby; Australia 867 posts
Dec 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" thanks! im doing ok. still not feeling well tho. this concussion really sucks. i cant concentrate on ... [snip!] ... gonna come after me for telling the cops. at least things with my gf are really good. shes coming over everyday after school."</blockquote>




Its awesome that things are working out with your girlfriend :)
How did her parents react when they found out what that douchebag did to you? And what was his girlfriends reaction?



Its great that your dad is helping out so much so that you don't have to do this alone.
Don't be afraid, you have evidence of his texts and everything. Plus, he is an adult beating up a minor, there's no way he will get away with it.



Try your best to stay focussed on school, but also don't stress yourself because its not the end of the world if you don't pass. It just makes things a bit harder that's all.



How is your girlfriends pregnancy going? Has she gotten morning sickness at all? Getting close to her next appointment?

Dr.P3pp3r 3 kids; Germany 2057 posts
Dec 20th '12
Quoting MX23:" thanks! im doing ok. still not feeling well tho. this concussion really sucks. i cant concentrate on ... [snip!] ... gonna come after me for telling the cops. at least things with my gf are really good. shes coming over everyday after school."



Make sure you show your lawyer the text messages he has been sending you.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Dec 20th '12
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" thanks! im doing ok. still not feeling well tho. ... [snip!] ... all. How is your girlfriends pregnancy going? Has she gotten morning sickness at all? Getting close to her next appointment?"


This.

Keep posted please! :)

mamabear+3 Due May 10 (boy); 2 kids; California 39 posts
Dec 20th '12

I see changed ur mind :) good boy. Every guy will freak out during a moment like that but soon realize maybe its not so bad. It will be hard but easier if u do it together. Wait til u see what a miracle u helped create

Caidens_momma Due September 11; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Marathon, Florida 351 posts
Dec 21st '12

vI've been following this post for some time now, I have read all the pages. I've read what going on with everything, the guy deserves whats coming to him, (hopefully jail time). But I wanted to say your are one of the only few guys who have steped up in the time of need. And mkaing sure your going to be there for that child of yours. Not a lot of guys your age will sit there and do that. You are one of the few, my best friend 22 and she going to be a single mothers cause the guy who like 25 or something walked out on her.

I hope everything goes well with your gf and the baby. I am happy that you changed your mind about everything! Gives us girls some hope when we brake the news haha :D

How far along is your gf now?

MX23 Japan 674 posts
Dec 21st '12

my gfs parents have actually been really nice to me lately. its so strange cuz of how things were a month ago. i guess they are over the shock of my gf being pregnant. they were pissed at her sister tho (well mainly her bf) and dont want him at the house at all. her sister has been staying with him for the last week now. shes 21 so prolly just gonna move out and live with him. her sister said i deserved what i got and hopes he does it again. she is such a b***h. glad she isnt around much.



the cops have copies of all the txts. i just hope they believe me.



school has been a struggle. no matter what i just cant concentrate for long and my memory sucks. sometimes i cant even remember where i put stuff in the house. doctor said its normal but i just wanna get better. i think im gonna fail us government but i might be able to take it next semester but also have to take economics. gonna be hard for me to do both plus everything else.



my gf is doing awesome. shes 11 weeks now and said she feels good but is tired alot. she said shes always hungry which is different for her. oh and she has to go the bathroom like all the time it seems lol. shes showing a little bit to now. not much but its still cool to see. she was crying cuz of it i guess tho. i told her not to worry cuz its not permanet and i thought she was cute. her appointment is after christmas

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 21st '12
Quoting MX23:" my gfs parents have actually been really nice to me lately. its so strange cuz of how things were a month ... [snip!] ... of it i guess tho. i told her not to worry cuz its not permanet and i thought she was cute. her appointment is after christmas"

Oh OP i am so happy for you. Like i can't even say how happy i am that everything is turning out the way its suppose to. I hope that you are able to concentrate more though with your school work. And sometimes you just have to buckle down and do it until its done. i have the same problem with remembering where i put things or what i am learning in school (im in college)....And make sure that your GF is eating healthy its ok to snack and when i was pregnant with LO 4years ago thats all i did was eat but i ate really healthy. So make sure that if she isn't eating junk food neither are you, its one way of being supportive too. Also the peeing doesn't stop LOL I just found out a few days ago that i am pregnant again and for the last 4weeks i have noticed and increase in how often i need to pee. Like i wake up multiple times a night just to pee. Its crazy but these are the little things that you do for your little miracle. Congrats again!!

Kattie.C. 33 kids; Leduc, Alberta 166 posts
Dec 21st '12
Quoting MX23:" READ THE WHOLE f**king POST B4 U COMMENT READ THE WHOLE f**king POST B4 U COMMENT READ THE WHOLE f**king ... [snip!] ... you do about it update! i changed my mind. i am gonna be with my gf and the baby so please read everything before you post."


My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!

Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy 2 kids; De Pere, Wisconsin 2627 posts
Dec 21st '12
Quoting Kattie.C.:" My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, ... [snip!] ... control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!"

Did you even read THE WHOLE POST before posting.....OP is/has manned up and is dealing with it and he is soo happy now. SO before you judge a book by its cover read at least a few pages into it.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kattie.C.:</b>" My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, ... [snip!] ... control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!"</blockquote>




Did you actually read the post that you quoted? Or just quoted it and replied from the title. He has "manned" up and is sticking by his girlfriend

No more b***hes No, NJ, United States 1659 posts
Dec 21st '12
Quoting Kattie.C.:" My fiance never wanted a kid when we got together, but I ended up getting pregnant, while on birth control, ... [snip!] ... control, and he MANNED UP and stayed by my side because he loved and cared for me, even after I gave him the option to leave!!"


oh shut the f**k up.

Sara McKenize Due August 10; Ocala, Florida 1 posts
Dec 22nd '12

I have the same issue with my BF, he said all the same things you have said, minus the last line of actually staying with her and accepting responsibility. I think it is great you are doing it. Wish I could say the same in my case. We ARE WAY TO YOUNG, but I know with some help from supporting parents like we have we can get thru this 1- 1.5 years until we get out of school. I can continue homeschooling and graduate a year early and get into my career ASAP. I already have some college credits thru school. So it is possible for some teen parents to make it. Giving your child away or aborting it, it not really a way out. Regret is a HUGE burden... Im glad Im sticking with my choice and keeping my child, just wish he was more like you and finally manning up!! Good luck..

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Dec 22nd '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MX23:</b>" my gfs parents have actually been really nice to me lately. its so strange cuz of how things were a month ... [snip!] ... of it i guess tho. i told her not to worry cuz its not permanet and i thought she was cute. her appointment is after christmas"</blockquote>



Aww so happy for you! Just keep serious with school, you can do it. ;) Trust me, once you're out of school for a while you'll wish you could go back lol just keep working hard and enjoy it as you go. And advice for when she starts getting upset about her getting "fat", keep making her feel beautiful and letting her know that she will always be special to you no matter what. That is one of the things my SO had a hard time with because he's not good with showing emotions but it's simple things like that, that can make the biggest difference to a girl while her body's going through changes that she has a hard time dealing with. You're doing a great job with everything! So proud of you!! :)