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poooof Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4168 posts
18th Nov '12

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Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
18th Nov '12

well is he talking back? if he is ignoring her she will get the hint

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
18th Nov '12

I would be pissed that he keeps talking to her knowing her intentions
Id make him choose. But that's just me

** A.J's Mommy** 1 child; New Paltz, New York 805 posts
18th Nov '12

Honestly I would be pissed. I would be speaking to BOTH of them about it and letting the woman know she is way out of line.

SoonToBeProudMommyOf3 Due March 10 (girl); 34 kids; Oklahoma 441 posts
18th Nov '12
I would be more concerned that SHE stopped contact.. he said 'she blocked me'.... so he would have continued if she hadn't, even though you asked him to stop!? I'd make him choose. I wouldn't let it continue.
Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting SoonToBeProudMommyOf3:" I would be more concerned that SHE stopped contact.. he said 'she blocked me'.... so he would have continued ... [snip!] ... so he would have continued if she hadn't, even though you asked him to stop!? I'd make him choose. I wouldn't let it continue."

she said not to quote :?

It's Delivered 33 kids; Georgia 15057 posts
18th Nov '12

Do you have your husbands facebook password? Do you see if he text her?



We share everything with passwords. Men text or call me a lot with my job ( Marketing ) and if my husband stated he was uncomfortable with the times they texted or messgaed ( late) it was nipped in the butt.



They shouldn't be talking so much and he shouldn't say those things. I would be very insecure if my husband told someone they were beautiful and messages were questionable.

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4168 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:" well is he talking back? if he is ignoring her she will get the hint"


He's not talking back... yet.



:( This is breaking my heart. I am just now able to fully trust him and we are getting along great. If I tell him I don't want him to talk to her and I catch him, well, I don't think I will put up with this shit anymore.

Binky ♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 6236 posts
18th Nov '12

I'd be pissed that he was still doing it even though it makes you uncomfortable. Tell him flat out that enough is enough, its either you or her. Seriously, ask him how he would feel if roles were reversed, Im almost positive he wouldn't like another guy trying to get with you. If it comes down to it, block her yourself.

Gor-Jess! Due December 30 (girl); TTC since Jan 2014; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Queen Creek, Arizona 10209 posts
18th Nov '12

Oh man, if my SO ever talked to a girl like that I would be effing pissed! Plus, when he said "Don't worry, she stopped talking to me. She blocked me when I told her we were having a baby."...its like he would STILL be talking to her if she didn't block him.



I feel like its very inappropriate of him. He has no business talking to her and vice versa.



I don't know how you are not freaking out on him lol.

It's Delivered 33 kids; Georgia 15057 posts
18th Nov '12

If they didnt have a kid together, no reason to keep talking.

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14282 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting jordan.ℓeigh✿:" He's not talking back... yet. :( This is breaking my heart. I am just now able to fully trust him ... [snip!] ... great. If I tell him I don't want him to talk to her and I catch him, well, I don't think I will put up with this shit anymore."


I'm sorry love <3
you know where i am if you need to talk...

*D & S's Momma * 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Winter Haven, Florida 1863 posts
18th Nov '12

I would be upset, my husband was talking to his ex that he dated back in high school last year and I deleted her from his facebook and asked him not to talk to her. He refriended her after a fight we had one time and was talking to her again right before I got pregnant, I got pissed. Not that i'm jealous but we both agreed when we got married that our ex's were our past and needed to stay in the past. I know he didn't date this girl M but the fact they had a thing for each other would make me uncomfortable. Ask him how he would like it if you started talking to a guy you had feelings for in high school?

SoonToBeProudMommyOf3 Due March 10 (girl); 34 kids; Oklahoma 441 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:" she said not to quote :?"


my bad... fixed

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4168 posts
18th Nov '12
Quoting Jenna ♥ Charlotte:" I'm sorry love <3 you know where i am if you need to talk..."


Thank you.



He says he won't talk to her, and I seriously want to believe him. But for 4 out of the almost 6 years we've been together, M caused us tons of problems.



And I asked him a bunch of times if he would still be talking to her if she hadn't blocked him, and he claims no.



I do have his FB password. BUT I caught him logging into a different FB a few months back that he claims he doesn't ever get on... but I'm scared he's using that one to contact her. Why would he need two FBs, you know?