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***Team Jacob*** 2 kids; California 4066 posts
Nov 18th '12

what a jerk! besides being an old fart.... get over him!!!!

*~Bunny~Hump~* 1 child; North Dakota 6820 posts
Nov 18th '12

I got suspicious after i txted him with my new number. I said wanna f**k as a joke and he said which one is this? Thats y i made the profile and ill tell him that. I kno he has real feelings for me. He cried in front of me after gettinv me in a bad situation. So i have no f**king clue wat to think. Yes im on my phone

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:</b>" I got suspicious after i txted him with my new number. I said wanna f**k as a joke and he said which ... [snip!] ... for me. He cried in front of me after gettinv me in a bad situation. So i have no f**king clue wat to think. Yes im on my phone"</blockquote>




Which one is this?? Gross, he sounds like a dirtbag

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" This is a mixed message in my head, yet i agree with it. Sure it's immature, but it's also how she ... [snip!] ... have found out til they were further in the relationship. So, it's just kinda a catch 22 situation. But, i still agree, ha."</blockquote>




Right hes a douche, no argument there, but if she's getting into a relationship with someone who she feels she needs to test immediately, she isn't in any shape to be getting into a relationship. It's like she knew he couldn't be trusted but just wanted a boyfriend so settled for him. It's sad. But if you are in a place wher you respect yourself and believe you deserve to be respected by your partner, you don't settle for someone you can't trust from the get go.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:" I got suspicious after i txted him with my new number. I said wanna f**k as a joke and he said which ... [snip!] ... for me. He cried in front of me after gettinv me in a bad situation. So i have no f**king clue wat to think. Yes im on my phone"


You should have talked to him about it, not try to trap him. You're 26, not 16. Be an adult and talk to him about it.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59255 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" This is a mixed message in my head, yet i agree ... [snip!] ... yourself and believe you deserve to be respected by your partner, you don't settle for someone you can't trust from the get go."


Oh, i completely agree.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59255 posts
Nov 18th '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" You should have talked to him about it, not try to trap him. You're 26, not 16. Be an adult and talk to him about it."


I honestly, personally wouldn't even waste any time talking about it.



OP, even if it seemed like he "cared", he obviously is open to "caring" for other women as well.

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 20306 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:</b>" I got suspicious after i txted him with ... [snip!] ... no f**king clue wat to think. Yes im on my phone"</blockquote> Which one is this?? Gross, he sounds like a dirtbag"</blockquote>




Ewwwwwww...



Which one is this. Ew.




Op, please don't tell me you have to THINK about this.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:</b>" I got suspicious after i txted him with my new number. I said wanna f**k as a joke and he said which ... [snip!] ... for me. He cried in front of me after gettinv me in a bad situation. So i have no f**king clue wat to think. Yes im on my phone"</blockquote>




Yeah. Crying in front of you does not equal real feelings, it equals being a good actor. Stop making excuses for him, he's got more than one sleezy strike against him ALREADY, and youre only two weeks in. Move on, and count your blessings for getting the f**k out of there before he really fucked you over.
I guarantee that if you give him another chance, eventually you will leave him (if he doesn't leave you for the next woman he meets online) for this shit, except by that time you'll have a whole lot more time, money(possibly), and emotions invested and possibly a child (accidents happen). Get out while it's still new and uncomplicated. He's just not worth your time.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
Nov 19th '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" You should have talked to him about it, not try to trap him. You're 26, not 16. Be an adult and talk to him about it."


He would of just lied to deny it.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 19th '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" He would of just lied to deny it."


You don't know that. And if he did, there are ways to tell.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
Nov 19th '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" You don't know that. And if he did, there are ways to tell."

I would say it's a pretty good chance that's the way it would go down. Don't get me wrong I snooping like that is not a correct way to go about it. I just have seen this happen a few times, and the excuses on why the profile is still there start to creep up.

*~Bunny~Hump~* 1 child; North Dakota 6820 posts
Nov 19th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I would say it's a pretty good chance that's the way it would go down. Don't get me wrong I snooping ... [snip!] ... to go about it. I just have seen this happen a few times, and the excuses on why the profile is still there start to creep up."</blockquote>



Im sure too. Haven't heard from him since he hung up on me. Bst I wont either. He probably shouldn't be an educator taking advantage of a younger girl. Arg. Or i probably shouldn't have been so dumb



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MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
Nov 19th '12
Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I would say it's a pretty good chance that's ... [snip!] ... probably shouldn't be an educator taking advantage of a younger girl. Arg. Or i probably shouldn't have been so dumb I"


Don't blame yourself there sweets. You have no idea he would be such a scumfuck. You just were looking for a nice guy to meet was all :).

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 19th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I would say it's a pretty good chance that's ... [snip!] ... probably shouldn't be an educator taking advantage of a younger girl. Arg. Or i probably shouldn't have been so dumb I"</blockquote>




He's the asshat here, not you. I mean what you did was definitely immature and silly but he was still caught doing something wrong. Just move on and be glad you didn't get too invested and THEN have him show his true colors.
And I'll say it again, if you are in a good place to start a relationship you will not end up with someone who can't be trusted right from the get to. When you respect and care about yourself enough, the people you attract will be people who really respect and care abou you too. Kwim?