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Would you be annoyed? Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12

I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now and he's a sweetheart :) the only thing is he's jealous :/ A little jealousy is cute. I think every woman wants to feel flattered that a man is jealous over them so I was flattered, at first, but now if I go out somewhere he asks, did ayone try to get at you? did any guys look at you? things like that and It's seriously annoying me now to the point where it gets me mad, would u be annoyed? or am I overreacting?

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
19th Nov '12

"SO" is like that. I'll just call him SO even though we are technically broken up.
He is very jealous but I think it's more of a control issue. He can't get over it. He brings the same shit up a hundred times a day. Who was I with, did guys try to talk to me. And they literally never do Lmao. But he won't believe anything I say. He doesn't like that I have a job because guys can talk to me and he wouldn't know. I'm like really? Too bad. I need to feed my kid.

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

I'd tell him to stfu lol. He has trust issues I'm assuming?

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting A&J. ♥:" "SO" is like that. I'll just call him SO even though we are technically broken up. He is very jealous ... [snip!] ... like that I have a job because guys can talk to me and he wouldn't know. I'm like really? Too bad. I need to feed my kid."

He is the same way! he tells me he's just scared that a cute handsome guy is gonna take me away from him -___-

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
19th Nov '12

I positively hate that kind of jealousy/insecurity. It's the biggest turn off to me in the world and one of the few things I wouldn't be able to put up with in a relationship.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
19th Nov '12

Girl, when you look like THAT, he's gonna be jealous ;)
But seriously, he sounds very insecure about himself.

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" I'd tell him to stfu lol. He has trust issues I'm assuming?"

Believe me I wish could be like just stfu lol but the thing is he's so sweet about it :( which in a way annoys me even more, I told him how I feel about it if he trusts me then if guys try to talk to me or not it shouldn't matter cause he trusts me. I'm hoping he gets it cause I don't want to end a relationship over this but it's something that reallky buggs me :/

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Mama to William + 1:" I positively hate that kind of jealousy/insecurity. It's the biggest turn off to me in the world and one of the few things I wouldn't be able to put up with in a relationship."


This. I could not stand it. No way in hell would I date someone that ridiculous. They need some counseling before they need to be in a relationship.

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Anthony's Mommy :):</b>" Believe me I wish could be like just stfu lol but the thing is he's so sweet about it :( which in a way ... [snip!] ... trusts me. I'm hoping he gets it cause I don't want to end a relationship over this but it's something that reallky buggs me :/"</blockquote>




My SO used to be like that when we first got together. Maybe as time goes on he'll be able to trust you more and quite with the annoying crap? Worked like tht for me anyways.

MrsSinatra 1 child; 1 angel baby; Phoenix, Arizona 986 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama to William + 1:</b>" I positively hate that kind of jealousy/insecurity. It's the biggest turn off to me in the world and one of the few things I wouldn't be able to put up with in a relationship."</blockquote>




This.



But seriously jealousy like that leads to controlling behavior. Be careful. My DF is like that. We had a very very hard time in the beginning, hell we still struggle with it. But he's better. You need yo lay down your law/bounderies and stick with them. And never break his trust. Then you're just asking for a shitty relationship.



Goodluck!!

Almyk 1 child; Michigan 455 posts
19th Nov '12

Talk like that sends up a red-flag for me.. Sure maybe it's "cute" for a little bit.. but just be careful that he doesn't start to get controlling too.. :/

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Mama to William + 1:" I positively hate that kind of jealousy/insecurity. It's the biggest turn off to me in the world and one of the few things I wouldn't be able to put up with in a relationship."

I agree with you, I was in this situation before with my son's dad and I HATED it I was not happy at all he took it overboard telling me what to wear :/ so when I put an end to that relationship I realized the things I will not put up with, and I have explained this to my bf so I'm hoping he understands where I'm coming from.

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12

Thanks ladies :) I will be having a serious talk with him about it and if I don't see change ima just have to let him go, my son is my priority and I don't need someone stressing me out over something so meaningless.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
19th Nov '12

"A little jealousy is cute. I think every woman wants to feel flattered that a man is jealous over them so I was flattered,"



no and no

Due 12th March :) Due March 11; Londonderry, United Kingdom 218 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Anthony's Mommy :):" I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now and he's a sweetheart :) the only thing is he's ... [snip!] ... like that and It's seriously annoying me now to the point where it gets me mad, would u be annoyed? or am I overreacting? "

That would annoy the life out of me i agree a wee bit of jealousy is flattering but thats going to far and it will keep getting worse if you don't nip it in the bud now he will end up getting very possessive :/