Quoting Mommy2ChaseandAden :):" IMO I think he purposely blew up you overspending to have you move out so it would be easier to cheat."
This! Although it does sound like hes sorry, If you decide to get back together id take it slow. Hopefully this was an eyeopener for him
<blockquote><b>Quoting Never too late:</b>" Ok, ladies more has happened. Can anyone shed some light on this. So since all of this we have done alot ... [snip!] ... he would call me after he got his daughter to bed. So was I wrong for the way I handled it or was he wrong for getting mad?"</blockquote>
It sounds like he really just doesn't want to make any efoort to make things work with you and you should just let it go :(
If he came to you about what he had done instead of letting you find out some other way (or probably hoping you never would), I'd say maybe think about another chance. But I wouldn't give him another chance in this situation. You probably won't get past it. And the limit is only going to get pushed further next time.
Quoting Never too late:" Ok, ladies more has happened. Can anyone shed some light on this. So since all of this we have done alot ... [snip!] ... he would call me after he got his daughter to bed. So was I wrong for the way I handled it or was he wrong for getting mad?"
I'm sorry but he's playing you. My ex did this to me for 5 years off/on. After what he did to you, and still treats you like that? No, fuck him. He's probably still hanging with that damn girl. If it wasn't for my SO then I'd say I hate all men BUT there are good ones out there, don't let this guy fuck with you head anymore than he has. I'm telling you my ex screwed my head up in 5 years....and now it gets taken out on my SO sometimes, which i'm working on but these mind games can really screw people mentally!
Ok, so I talked to him not long after my last post. He said that he finally read my text and realized exactly what had happened. He apologized for flipping but said I should of just talked to him. I told him that I felt if I tried to talk I was going to get more upset. Anyway so I ended up going over there and we talked some more about it. Still unsure of what I'm going to do, one day at a time.