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user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting BryarWoods:" This is alot to read, but I suggest you read it OP. May come in handy to know your rights should anything ... [snip!] ... get crazy. http://fightcps.com/2010/04/09/what-to-do-if-child-protective-services-social-workers-are-investigating-you/"


The court already issued a guardian ad litem to their family. It's past CPS in terms of court investigations

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" To be honest, I'd rather my daughter go to the state than her grandparents."

It would be easier for you to get custody back from the grandparents than it would be from the state.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" To be honest, I'd rather my daughter go to the state than her grandparents."


Why? I'd rather them go somewhere somewhat familiar and somewhere where I could see her.



I just read your last post, and while I didn't see the OP, this seems like one HUGE cluster fuck of craziness. I see this turning into an even BIGGER cluster fuck seeing as how they gave your child her own guardian ad litem.

Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19411 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Why? I'd rather them go somewhere somewhat familiar and somewhere where I could see her. I just ... [snip!] ... craziness. I see this turning into an even BIGGER cluster fuck seeing as how they gave your child her own guardian ad litem. "


His parents didn't do a very good job at raising their kids so I know they wouldn't raise her very well. That's why I'd rather her go to another family that could possibly raise her better. With his parents she would grow up to be a spoiled brat who has everything handed to her.



I don't know whats going to happen. My lawyer asked for an unsupervised something (can't remember) which Judge said they need to convince her into that with all of our DV past. I asked my lawyer what would happen next and he said we'd plead no contest and then they'd make me jump through hoops with parenting classes or whatever.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" His parents didn't do a very good job at raising their kids so I know they wouldn't raise her very well. ... [snip!] ... happen next and he said we'd plead no contest and then they'd make me jump through hoops with parenting classes or whatever."


And if she goes into the system she has a potential to be abused and neglected bounced from house to house till she's 18. I mean it seems pretty clear to me what the BETTER choice it.



Who has your child now? You correct?

Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19411 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" His parents didn't do a very good job at raising their kids so I know they wouldn't raise her very well. ... [snip!] ... happen next and he said we'd plead no contest and then they'd make me jump through hoops with parenting classes or whatever."


I also asked him like 5x if they think she is going to be taken from me, he says no they already would have. He said the police would get her and put her in foster care or something like that. He's never steered me wrong before......BD's parents asked if they can speak to the GAL and I told her to call me after she speaks with them. I don't care what I have to do, what money I have to pay or whatever as long as I keep my daughter.

loser mom Due June 24 (twins); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 11267 posts
19th Nov '12

OP, don't YOU want to raise your daughter??

If so, do whatever the fuck the court tells you to.

Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19411 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" And if she goes into the system she has a potential to be abused and neglected bounced from house to ... [snip!] ... to house till she's 18. I mean it seems pretty clear to me what the BETTER choice it. Who has your child now? You correct? "


Yes, I have her.

loser mom Due June 24 (twins); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 11267 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" I also asked him like 5x if they think she is going to be taken from me, he says no they already would ... [snip!] ... after she speaks with them. I don't care what I have to do, what money I have to pay or whatever as long as I keep my daughter."


oh okay, that just answered my question :)

Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19411 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting loser mom:" oh okay, that just answered my question :)"


:) yup, I plan to do whatever they want.



They want me to go to something called Solid Ground (not even sure what it is.. lol) but I've already signed up to attend right after court. WHATEVER they want me to do, I'm on it.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" I also asked him like 5x if they think she is going to be taken from me, he says no they already would ... [snip!] ... after she speaks with them. I don't care what I have to do, what money I have to pay or whatever as long as I keep my daughter."


The GAL isn't legally allowed to talk to you about anything she talks to them about :?. If that's what you are saying.



And your lawyer is a liar. They can and will remove her at anytime ( not saying they WILL). I've had a girl I knew in high school go to court for assault against her child's father and they removed her child after the case was over. ( She got him back after she took parent classes, anger management and served her 6 months).

loser mom Due June 24 (twins); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 11267 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" The GAL isn't legally allowed to talk to you about anything she talks to them about :?. If that's what ... [snip!] ... her child after the case was over. ( She got him back after she took parent classes, anger management and served her 6 months)."


what is GAL??



Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19411 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" The GAL isn't legally allowed to talk to you about anything she talks to them about :?. If that's what ... [snip!] ... her child after the case was over. ( She got him back after she took parent classes, anger management and served her 6 months)."


No, I'm not going to ask her what they talked about because I know she cannot tell me.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" :) yup, I plan to do whatever they want. They want me to go to something called Solid Ground (not even ... [snip!] ... even sure what it is.. lol) but I've already signed up to attend right after court. WHATEVER they want me to do, I'm on it."



Just looked it up for you.. It's to teach you how to be a effective co-parent.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting ღ mj's mama:" No, I'm not going to ask her what they talked about because I know she cannot tell me."


Ahh okay lol. I thought that's what you meant.