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Snow Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" I would be f**king livid. You don't ... [snip!] ... process was when deciding to quit. He keeps telling me everything will be fine, but how can it be fine with no form of income?!"


I hate that crap; telling me everything will be fine when there is no plan to speak of. I'm a planner so just telling me shit will be okay instead of showing me how doesn't work. I'm sorry but he's an idiot.

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" I hate that crap; telling me everything will be fine when there is no plan to speak of. I'm a planner ... [snip!] ... of. I'm a planner so just telling me shit will be okay instead of showing me how doesn't work. I'm sorry but he's an idiot. "</blockquote>




I'm the same way! I have things budgeted and planned months in advance just to feel secure in knowing what I'll need and stuff. This just freaks me out and makes my anxiety sky rocket.

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting E.P. Mom:</b>" Yea that's really irresponsible... Savings are meant for just that... To save, not to spend because he ... [snip!] ... works out ok, did he just not tell you about this? Cuz to get vacation at any job I know of you have to request in advance : /"</blockquote>




Well he took all last week off, I was ok with that. But today literally minutes ago he told me. My thoughts are just all over the place!

Momma +2 Girls 2 kids; Indiana 3612 posts
19th Nov '12

I would be super pissed. You dont quit one job unless you have another lined up without consulting your SO. Especially if hes ths inly source of income. (Not sure in ur case if he is or not).

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma +2 Girls:</b>" I would be super pissed. You dont quit one job unless you have another lined up without consulting your SO. Especially if hes ths inly source of income. (Not sure in ur case if he is or not)."</blockquote>



I'm a SAHM. I guess hes been talking with his brother about getting a job where he works? But nothing is on paper or even forsure so no clue why he'd actually quit.

furrbabiesmommy 18 kids; California 16570 posts
19th Nov '12

I would be LIVID! Jobs are not that easy to get.

Perfectly Imperfect :P 1 child; California 146 posts
19th Nov '12

I would have been really mad, it's really irresponsible of his part he should've taken you into consideration when he made that decision.

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Anthony's Mommy :):</b>" I would have been really mad, it's really irresponsible of his part he should've taken you into consideration when he made that decision."</blockquote>



He says since we aren't married, he can do a he pleases. I told him we live together and have a child, if he has that thought process why not just give me CS and leave?