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HELP!(for my sister) Momma to an Angel 16 kids; Pennsylvania 298 posts
19th Nov '12

ok so.......



my sister is a single girl. her ex boyfriend recently contacted her and asked if there was a chance that they could get back together. she said yes the is a possiblilty but she dont want to jump the gun and say yes to dating him right away. so they are working on a friendship first but today she was talking to a fellow co worker who also dated her best friend for a few short weeks. the bff broke it off with him bc her mother is a crazy loon. but besides the point the man asked my sister out on a date. should she go out with him or not? what should she do about her ex. I dont know what kind of advice to give her.

E.P. Mom Due March 14; 1 child; Texas 2668 posts
19th Nov '12

First thing she needs to consider is WHY is he an ex... If that issue is still there, It would be an automatic NO in my books.

Momma to an Angel 16 kids; Pennsylvania 298 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting E.P. Mom:" First thing she needs to consider is WHY is he an ex... If that issue is still there, It would be an automatic NO in my books. "


His mother was always in his business with them but now she supposedly 'likes" her

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
19th Nov '12

Giving advice to a sister may not always be the easiest because most likely she will not follow it.\ But when you talk to her be sure to tell her how you feel about him and express your concern for her. Try not to get too stressed out if she does not follow your advice at least you tried.

Momma to an Angel 16 kids; Pennsylvania 298 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Eve Mae:" Giving advice to a sister may not always be the easiest because most likely she will not follow it.\ ... [snip!] ... him and express your concern for her. Try not to get too stressed out if she does not follow your advice at least you tried. "


I have met both guys and boy are very sweet and good guys but I am worried if she get with her ex. his mom with stick her nose in it, i dont want her to have a repeat of last time

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6874 posts
19th Nov '12

I have never touched a guy that my best friend dated at all. Now my ex husband dated one or two of my friends in highschool but those were not real relationships they were just puppy love.

Momma to an Angel 16 kids; Pennsylvania 298 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Pistol Annie MK REP:" I have never touched a guy that my best friend dated at all. Now my ex husband dated one or two of my friends in highschool but those were not real relationships they were just puppy love."

she said she would ask her bff before even considering say yes or no

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
19th Nov '12
Quoting Momma to an Angel:" I have met both guys and boy are very sweet and good guys but I am worried if she get with her ex. his mom with stick her nose in it, i dont want her to have a repeat of last time"


When you talk to her make sure you warn her about his mom so that she can talk to him about her if they do decide to get into a relationship. I would suggest her to try a new guy because exes are exes for reasons. I'm sure this will all solve this self out. I don't know too many woman who like mommy's boys anyways.

Eleanor Rigby 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6874 posts
19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma to an Angel:</b>" she said she would ask her bff before even considering say yes or no"</blockquote>




Well if her bff says ok then I do not see a problem with it.