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dh wants to ttc M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7582 posts
20th Nov '12

Dd is almost 8 months old and dh asked me if i wanted to quit taking my bc.



Should i wait till the end of the pack 11 days left. And see if he still wants to then or just quit in the middle.



Im on the mini pill. And this coming from the guy who wants to make we wait 4 years.



Af ended last week and im spotting now.....



Hmmmm choices

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22942 posts
20th Nov '12

I would wait.



Eta until your pack is done

Mommy of TWO <3 2 kids; Maryland 731 posts
20th Nov '12

If he wanted to wait 4 years and now suddenly wants you to quit your birth control, I'd make him wait a little to make sure he's really ready

MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD) 66 kids; Sterling, Illinois 11519 posts
20th Nov '12

if hes gonna care the baby hell ya i say start to ttc.... :-P

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7582 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aiden's Mommy :) 10/13/11:</b>" If he wanted to wait 4 years and now suddenly wants you to quit your birth control, I'd make him wait a little to make sure he's really ready"</blockquote>




Exactly my point. Thats what i thought.

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
20th Nov '12

My two cents?



Wait four months until your body has had a year two recover. The same two cents you'd get from your gyno.



You don't want to put undue stress on you and a new baby by getting pregnant too soon.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
20th Nov '12

Wait... trust me. Pregnancies that close together can cause problems. Plus you might change your mind once your lo is up running around and getting into everything lol.

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7582 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Wait... trust me. Pregnancies that close together can cause problems. Plus you might change your mind once your lo is up running around and getting into everything lol."</blockquote>




She is not walking yet but she crawls and pulls up on everything im always freaking out. But I have wanted another since she was born so my mind and heart are playing games. :( I plan on finishing out this pack and then discussing it.

Life is a Highway ♫ 18 kids; Australia 9381 posts
20th Nov '12

Its hard, very hard having them so close together. My boys are 21 months apart but I really do wish I would of waited just a little bit longer, maybe 3 years gap. 1 so my body had time to recover and 2 so I could have a little more 1 on 1 time with my oldest.

Milk Monster 2 kids; Arizona 9089 posts
20th Nov '12

My babies are 23 months apart. It's pretty hard. But if you want to and you feel that you are ready, more power to you! But I'd at least finish out the pack or maybe revisit the idea when DD is a year old this way you know he is for sure.

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Maebaby2012:" Dd is almost 8 months old and dh asked me if i wanted to quit taking my bc. Should i wait till the end ... [snip!] ... And this coming from the guy who wants to make we wait 4 years. Af ended last week and im spotting now..... Hmmmm choices"


if yall decide to let me know :) Marcus wants us to TTC when Brantley is 9 months old. I think Ava would be a good big sister though :)

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7582 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brantley's mama 8-24-12:</b>" if yall decide to let me know :) Marcus wants us to TTC when Brantley is 9 months old. I think Ava would be a good big sister though :)"</blockquote>




If i do decided to have another one its not going on fb until the baby is born. I already can here people being stupid.

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Maebaby2012:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brantley's mama 8-24-12:</b>" if yall decide to let me know ... [snip!] ... If i do decided to have another one its not going on fb until the baby is born. I already can here people being stupid."


lol all of a sudden it will be like oh hey BTW i had another baby yesterday lol. ignore people, people are stupid lol. its yours and grants decision wether or not you want another baby and when you want another baby and if you are able to support both children then all the power to you. dont listen to wha people say, i swear some people make it their mission in life to make other people miserable.