so sat at 4 in the morning i woke up so bc i was going to have a massive gallbladder attack. i knew it and didnt want to be home when it happened. we got to the hospital it takes about 30 min to get there. i have never been there b4 but my mom finally got me on her insurance. they did an ultrasound and admitted me on the spot. the on call surgeon wanted me to have surgery sometime that week but wasnt sure bc he had to talk to the main surgeon who was deer hunting. they said i would find out for sure sunday. i asked my so if he wouldnt tell people about it yet. i have been in an out of the hospital tons and i didnt want to get my hopes up or be stressed out. my inlaws want my daughter and i didnt want them to know my so was alone with our daughter bc my so had enough worry and i didnt want him manipulated by them. i told him he could however call his aunt who lives with them bc she is the only one that hasnt disrespected me or my so. she lied and said she would come play xbox with my so but she doesnt drive alone. my so drove up to meet her at his grandmas house. he had our daughter in his arms and his sister stomped down the hall and slammed the door. basically slamming the door on my daughter. not physically but still pisses me off. his mom said its bc he didnt stand up for his family and leave me when i put my foot down and wouldnt allow them to embarrass me at a public dinner and i took my daughter and left. so my so took our daughter and left. his aunt followed him in her car. so then it comes about that he cant even be there either his mom wants our daughter without either one of us being present. all this is going on while im fasting on painmeds pumping breastmilk in between doses so i felt pain but my milk was clean. anyways fast forward to the next day. his aunt accidently butt dials his grandmas house where, she lives, and his mom listened for she said 11 min about them talking about me having surgery. she flips a lid. while i am in surgery he gets threatening phone calls saying if they ever see me again they were kicking my ass and i was a c**t and made up being sick so i could be lazy. and lots of other things. she demanded her car back and he got messages from his sister saying he was never family and a worthless p***e o* s**t. he wasnt a real man and he is nothing without his mother. she said the only thing he is good for is all the lavish gifts they give him and me. for his birthday he got a pair of slippers from his mom and 20 bucks. thats totally ok and normal if his sister didnt get a 3500 car 2 birthday parties a graduation party 1700 dollar computer pandora beads a trip to europe and 2k to blow while she was there a cruise 500 dollars inside a coach purse and i could go on for pages. so my mom has been taking my so to work he started getting 9 an hour mon after he graduated his cna class. its not alot of money but its really great for us. we plan on getting a car after we get caught up from him not making lots of money during his class. im recovering pretty good but how do i make my so feel better? we did nothing wrong. they wanted him to leave me and take our daughter for his mom to raise and he didnt allow that.
oh btw they said i made up being sick here is a pic of my gallbladder
I got my gall bladder removed, I suffered for over a year with that..I am so sorry, for the gall bladder, as for your insane bat shit crazy MIL, tell her to go F herself....hope you feel better fast and congrats to the hubby for the pay increase!!!
Wow... b***h is crazy!
we just got more messages from his grandma stating that his mom is in the right bc i hid sophie needed a sitter to personally hurt them. yeah im sitting in surgery scared out of my mind to hurt anyone. they said i made it all up anyways so why would they care anyways
Shits ridiculous. I've read your other posts and as much as I can understand wanting family in your daughters life, all of you (especially her) will be better off without them. Cut them out completely
Quoting A&J. ♥:" Shits ridiculous. I've read your other posts and as much as I can understand wanting family in your daughters life, all of you (especially her) will be better off without them. Cut them out completely"
This! Tax time is just around the corner so you can try to get a reliable vehicle then. Since his mom already took the car nows your chance to completely cut them out of your lives. All they do is cause your family stress & drama & they treat you & SO horribly
i agree thank you guys for your support.
What does a gallbladder attack feel like. I have gallstones & i get pain right in that area that usually lasts for several hours. Im scheduled for another ultrasound but its not until jan
Quoting Misty Walls:" What does a gallbladder attack feel like. I have gallstones & i get pain right in that area that usually lasts for several hours. Im scheduled for another ultrasound but its not until jan"
feels worse than labor. my right arm would hurt and ache my back too. it comes and goes like contractions. you cant breathe feel like puking its bad or at least mine was
Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" feels worse than labor. my right arm would hurt and ache my back too. it comes and goes like contractions. you cant breathe feel like puking its bad or at least mine was"
aww crap. When i get it i feel like im extremly bloated & someone is squeezing my ribs. I really hope i wont have to get surgery.
Quoting Misty Walls:" aww crap. When i get it i feel like im extremly bloated & someone is squeezing my ribs. I really hope i wont have to get surgery. "
im sore but im glad to get it out let me tell you. if you have stones that is the only way you are going to find relief. diet works for a while until water makes it happen. it can cause skips in you heartbeat too. im glad i had it done when dd was still little she wont remember all the pain i was in or the surgery.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" im sore but im glad to get it out let me tell you. if you have stones that is the only way you are going ... [snip!] ... in you heartbeat too. im glad i had it done when dd was still little she wont remember all the pain i was in or the surgery. "</blockquote>
I had heart problems a week pp, they were doing an echo on my heart & that's how they found the gallstones. One thing at a time I suppose. Glad to hear your feeling better :)
thanks! ill get your hat done b4 xmas i promise lol i had to take a break haha
Ok whenever you get a chance just let me know :)
Quoting Misty Walls:" Ok whenever you get a chance just let me know :)"
ill probably start again this weekend =) dd is being a brat. i think she is getting 2 more teeth love her though