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Sweet Little Lies TTC since Dec 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Deception, WI, United States 5087 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" they probably perserve both and take the baby out and maybe either put it in its own coffin or with ... [snip!] ... its own coffin or with the mother. thats my guess. hopefully no one ever needs to find out the details in this kind of scenario"

I think you're right.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I just asked my uncle who is a mortician and he said the children will have to be named and buried separately because they would have been able to survive outside of the womb."


thanks for the info

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23057 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" they probably perserve both and take the baby out and maybe either put it in its own coffin or with ... [snip!] ... its own coffin or with the mother. thats my guess. hopefully no one ever needs to find out the details in this kind of scenario"</blockquote>




I would assume this is what they do. I hope not either

Lexi Rae Tea 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florida 446 posts
status 23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaysay:</b>" Why adopted if they survived? They would of had their father."</blockquote>



Because I'm brain dead and didn't think of that lol. My thought process has been totally out of whack with this pregnancy. Regardless, I wish she got help so her boys could have had a future. Stories like this rip at my heart, poor babies, poor woman, poor family.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
23rd Nov '12

Ya call me a heartless b***h, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40239 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Ya call me a heartless b***h, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/"


I'm just wondering have you ever had to deal with depression?

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Meg ♥:" I'm just wondering have you ever had to deal with depression? "


Yes I have and do..You could only imgaine what has gone through my head. I am tired of excuses for women. Its depression or its post partum..Some cases yes, most I am going to say no. If the father had thrown his 2 kids off the cliff then jumped himself, I bet no one would be feeling sorry for him. Like others have said the article really didnt explain much. Maybe she was depressed maybe she just wanted girls so bad and she didnt get her way so she jumped..who knows..her poor children now have no mother..thats what is sad

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23057 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Ya call me a heartless b***h, but that woman is a selfish hag! My sympathy are for her children and unborn babies/"</blockquote>



She was depressed. It states she had a history of depression. Depression makes you do lots of bad things.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23057 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only imgaine what has gone through my head. I am tired of excuses for ... [snip!] ... wanted girls so bad and she didnt get her way so she jumped..who knows..her poor children now have no mother..thats what is sad"</blockquote>




Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only ... [snip!] ... what is sad"</blockquote> Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant."


no one who was in " thier right mind" would. she obviusly had problems

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23057 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" no one who was in " thier right mind" would. she obviusly had problems"</blockquote>




The poster I quoted said that the woman probably wasnt depressed and only had gender disappointment aka she was in the right mind set to make a decision like this. We dont know but we shouldn't speculate

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Yes I have and do..You could only ... [snip!] ... what is sad"</blockquote> Who in their right mind would actually jump off of a bridge 9 months pregnant."


who in their "right mind" would kill any child? I just get annoyed that "mothers who kill" get sympathy.."fathers who kill" are monsters..they are all monsters!

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" who in their "right mind" would kill any child? I just get annoyed that "mothers who kill" get sympathy.."fathers who kill" are monsters..they are all monsters!"</blockquote>




Maybe its because women are more prone to depression during and after pregnancy? Its not an excuse but a fact. I mean i see where you are coming from, as well but she was sick..... I think its safe to say that. Did she killhersewlf SOLEY because of the gender of the babies who knows.. Maybe a note was found confirming that. IDK regardless its sad

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Yes I have and do..You could only imgaine what has gone through my head. I am tired of excuses for ... [snip!] ... wanted girls so bad and she didnt get her way so she jumped..who knows..her poor children now have no mother..thats what is sad"


uhhh but she didnt kill her children..



she killed herself. the fetuses were part of her body.



poor woman, i feel so sorry for her, she must have had such an awful life of severe depression.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23057 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" who in their "right mind" would kill any child? I just get annoyed that "mothers who kill" get sympathy.."fathers who kill" are monsters..they are all monsters!"</blockquote>




Agree to disagree