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Did he REALLY just implied that? Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12

So, my daughter got a bruise on her thigh, that i noticed like 4 days ago. Ive been watching it and when asked how she got it, she said "school".. But shes 2 and cant always believe what she says.. I shrugged it off, because its a bruise and assume she fell at school or something.
If shes not at school shes with me.. and obviously if she hurt her leg like that, i would have noticed it and known it was from the house/with me.
Well i get a text from BD saying "why does she have bruises and Scratches".. So i said "what scratches, she never had scratches and the bruise, i assume was from school."
He then says, "the scratches are from my house (seriously dude, then wtf did you ask me about them) and I'll be checking with school because i dont believe that."
I wrote back: "are you implying something, I assumed they were from school because we both know, if shes not with me then shes at school"
never heard back.



Seriously, is he really trying to accuse me of something. MAYBE i should think they came from his dads house, because thats where they always are when he has his 2 days of visitation.. And HE'S the one with the record of child 'abuse'... (he hasnt been charged with it and BD denies it BUT we do have a court order that says BD's dad cant be alone with her)



I mean really, I am my daughters care taker. he gets her 2 days a week for a few hours.. He wants nothing to do with her and always skips out on visits but wants to act like some macho dad when he feels like it.. If i felt there was abuse, dont you think i woulda investigated it myself? Shes two. She gets hurt. She loves taking 'risks'.. walking on the curb. running around..



I get soo frustrated.. My daughters my life, my world. The fact that he 'implies' i would do anything to hurt her is beyond ridiculous.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5396 posts
20th Nov '12

Just brush it off megan kids gets bumps and bruises all the time, all over the place and school is probably where she got them and that isnt necessarily a bad thing. You are a great mama <3

Liam's Mama 1 child; North Carolina 5474 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lorelei's Mommy ♥:</b>" So, my daughter got a bruise on her thigh, that i noticed like 4 days ago. Ive been watching it and when ... [snip!] ... frustrated.. My daughters my life, my world. The fact that he 'implies' i would do anything to hurt her is beyond ridiculous."</blockquote>




You need to call him. If you don't ask it'll eat you up for the rest of the night.

Momma x 2 18 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 1370 posts
20th Nov '12

I wouldn't worry too much about it, if it was a serious or irregular bruise, I'm sure your daughters school would have inquired about it by now.

Nomo 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
20th Nov '12

My kids extremities are covered in bruises :/ they are kids.. Your Bd obviously doesnt spend enought time around little kids to see it only takes something shniy to stear a child off the path and right into something else.. Smack.



Lol i wouldntworry too much honestly

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Liam's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lorelei's Mommy ♥:</b>" So, my daughter got a bruise ... [snip!] ... is beyond ridiculous."</blockquote> You need to call him. If you don't ask it'll eat you up for the rest of the night."

oh no.. I pick her up in an hour. he doesnt get over night visits.. I'm sure it'll be brought up then.

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" My kids extremities are covered in bruises :/ they are kids.. Your Bd obviously doesnt spend enought ... [snip!] ... something shniy to stear a child off the path and right into something else.. Smack. Lol i wouldntworry too much honestly"

Your right about him not knowing jack shit about her.. I dont even think he noticed to be honest. I think it was his step mom, who basically takes care of my daughter during her dad visits.

lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 5921 posts
20th Nov '12

My kids have bruises that I don't have a clue where they came from! Kids bang themselves all the time. He's over dramatic.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5396 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Lorelei's Mommy ♥:" Your right about him not knowing jack shit about her.. I dont even think he noticed to be honest. I think it was his step mom, who basically takes care of my daughter during her dad visits."


I was gonna say It was probably his step mom too, he just like to to this tit for tat shit..

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12

Thanks ladies. I think I'm just upset that he'd even THINK that..
Even if it came from me.. well not FROM me but with me there, shes TWO.



Just annoyed.

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
20th Nov '12

I would let it go. Kids get bumps and bruises all the time playing. If it was serious the school would have called you. I think he just trying to get a rise outta you, and push your buttons.

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" I was gonna say It was probably his step mom too, he just like to to this tit for tat shit.. "

yes!

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Carla DiFiore:" I would let it go. Kids get bumps and bruises all the time playing. If it was serious the school would have called you. I think he just trying to get a rise outta you, and push your buttons."

yeah.. well im not letting him know it pissed me off. HAH.
i just said are you accusing me of something.
All im gonna say when I see him is, shes 2, she gets bumps and bruises.. maybe the school didnt even notice she got it..

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5396 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Lorelei's Mommy ♥:" yes!"


he's a doucher.. we should try for a playdate soonish.

Lorelei's Mommy ♥ 1 child; Scotts Valley, CA, United States 1463 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" he's a doucher.. we should try for a playdate soonish."

I know.. I keep thinkin that!
Just busy with work and Lo in school.
I want to do another photo shoot of her!