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Cast Your Vote:

    • call it even and move on -- Votes: 33
    • accept a refund -- Votes: 17
    • donate the money -- Votes: 3
user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12

I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu).



It was CA to US. I paid $30, she paid more to ship. She refunded me like a douche and I don't want her dirty money - thus my suggestion to donate it since she doesn't want it back.



So I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
Nov 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" If they have the receipt that is was shipped then it wasn't their fault. But I am sensing there is more to the story."</blockquote>



I'm sensing there is more too

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Keep in mind it's been MONTHS and the ... [snip!] ... the decency to ask if you got the package :roll:"</blockquote> Geez the bitterness just oozes out of you doesn't it"

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Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting CrapBag.:" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."

She gave you a refund like a "douche?"

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting SemiCharmed:" What do YOU feel like you should do? Personally...if I knew that the person had really sent it, I would ... [snip!] ... it was indeed shipped? I used to swap letters and various things with a buddy down under and sometimes it would take FOREVER. "


oh yeah, she for sure sent it.
I bet it is just going to take forever to get here.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
Nov 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote>



Oh OK. I'm thinking there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23736 posts
Nov 20th '12

Why not just accept the refund and when the lost item arrives send her back the money?

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote> I'm going to slap you with my dirty money."


is it hooker money? because then I do want it.

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Devil's Advocate:" She gave you a refund like a "douche?""


yup.

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it."


no one is mad.
she just thinks she is right that everyone would think she should refund me. I am proving her wrong.

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" is it hooker money? because then I do want it."</blockquote> It spent the first couple hours in my possession tucked in my g-string."


that explains a lot.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
Nov 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" ... [snip!] ... She shouldn't be out the money because of another country's postal service. It's her money, she got nothing out of the deal."</blockquote>




Well maybe she is trying to be a good friend? Friends help each other out more as opposed to a a stranger. Idk just guessing. If she doesn't take the money back don't get mad though. Its not a big deal really. Maybe if you sell something else she wants later on you could give it to her for free basically as a way of "giving" back the money from this current lost item?

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" no one is mad. she just thinks she is right ... [snip!] ... everyone always votes against the OP. if I made it saying I can't believe you want your money back, it would go differently."


I tried to be as unbiased as possible but then my friendship seemed to be in question.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
Nov 20th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary ... [snip!] ... current lost item?"</blockquote> I'm going to send her illegal plants, how does a SWAT team invasion sound, crapbag?"</blockquote>




Lol. I'm sure she would just love that lol :p

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Nov 20th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary ... [snip!] ... current lost item?"</blockquote> I'm going to send her illegal plants, how does a SWAT team invasion sound, crapbag?"


WHAT? WHY ARE YOU MAD?