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Cast Your Vote:

    • call it even and move on -- Votes: 33
    • accept a refund -- Votes: 17
    • donate the money -- Votes: 3
Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
20th Nov '12

If someone bought something they didn't receive, they should get a refund. Friend on BG or not. I would expect a refund from any seller via Amazon or other online retailer.

OmegaDucks! Japan 615 posts
20th Nov '12

Toys for tots!

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7927 posts
20th Nov '12

I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu).



It was CA to US. I paid $30, she paid more to ship. She refunded me like a douche and I don't want her dirty money - thus my suggestion to donate it since she doesn't want it back.



So I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59183 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" If someone bought something they didn't receive, they should get a refund. Friend on BG or not. I would expect a refund from any seller via Amazon or other online retailer."</blockquote>




!!!!!



Why should the buyer be out the money? It's the sellers responsibility.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" If they have the receipt that is was shipped then it wasn't their fault. But I am sensing there is more to the story."</blockquote>



I'm sensing there is more too

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7927 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Keep in mind it's been MONTHS and the ... [snip!] ... the decency to ask if you got the package :roll:"</blockquote> Geez the bitterness just oozes out of you doesn't it"

?

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59183 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote>




I'm going to slap you with my dirty money.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting CrapBag.:" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."

She gave you a refund like a "douche?"

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7927 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting SemiCharmed:" What do YOU feel like you should do? Personally...if I knew that the person had really sent it, I would ... [snip!] ... it was indeed shipped? I used to swap letters and various things with a buddy down under and sometimes it would take FOREVER. "


oh yeah, she for sure sent it.
I bet it is just going to take forever to get here.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59183 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" oh yeah, she for sure sent it. I bet it is just going to take forever to get here."</blockquote>



Or come back to me!

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend on BG. (so no, it wasn't harsh to tell her to stfu). ... [snip!] ... I am asking what would YOU want to have happen if this were you because she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote>



Oh OK. I'm thinking there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
20th Nov '12

Why not just accept the refund and when the lost item arrives send her back the money?

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7927 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... she thinks I am stupid for not wanting the money back."</blockquote> I'm going to slap you with my dirty money."


is it hooker money? because then I do want it.

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7927 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting Devil's Advocate:" She gave you a refund like a "douche?""


yup.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59183 posts
20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrapBag.:</b>" I bought some clothes from Amanda, my good friend ... [snip!] ... there is a lot more to the story since I don't get why you would refuse a refund when offered and she would be mad about it."</blockquote>




She's treating me different because we're BFFLs, if it was any other seller she'd take the refund. She shouldn't be out the money because of another country's postal service. It's her money, she got nothing out of the deal.